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bettyellen

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42. from my experience, rapey types hide it well from the good guys who might spoil their fun

Mon Nov 25, 2013, 10:41 PM

Nov 2013

and cluster in groups with other misogynists that pretty much agree that" it's not rape if... she passed out, kissed you once, "sleeps with everybody", etc etc." In some subsets of men, that all is still part of their belief system- like it was at Stubenville HS, where the football team was allowed to take over.
I just watched a John Hughes teen movie from the 80's and was shocked the "good guy" passes off his drunken former GF to another kid to have a go at since she is passed out, and he does. It is a treated as a joke. Those boys were the were sympathetic characters- the girl was painted as a shallow slut. This was seen as normal in the 80's. I know it didn't seem remarkable 30 years ago.

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Four more charged in Steubenville rape case! [View all] Sheldon Cooper Nov 2013 OP

Good thing there's no such thing as rape culture nt geek tragedy Nov 2013 #1

yup. stupid damn ass argument as we see it over and over and over again. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #4

Superintendent charged with felonies jsr Nov 2013 #2

this is what we need. THIS.... yes. we have to stop the backlash, and THIS will do it. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #3

I think there were early reports about an assistant coach Sheldon Cooper Nov 2013 #6

Did you know that 54% chervilant Nov 2013 #10

Really. Got a link to that? n/t eggplant Nov 2013 #17

Yes, and I recommend that you watch the entire documentary, chervilant Nov 2013 #19

Apparently I didn't go to that college. n/t eggplant Nov 2013 #27

Unfortunately, chervilant Nov 2013 #31

most colleges do what they can to squash reporting of rapes on campus, it is horrible bettyellen Nov 2013 #41

I'm not disputing it, but that percentage is so hard for me to believe. QuestForSense Nov 2013 #18

I've only known one (that I know of, obviously) eggplant Nov 2013 #28

Gosh, how that must have shocked you! QuestForSense Nov 2013 #35

Yep. It floored everyone at the place we worked together. eggplant Nov 2013 #39

For over thirty-five years, chervilant Nov 2013 #30

The Steubenville case highlights how prevalent the objectification of women really is. QuestForSense Nov 2013 #36

For more information, please chervilant Nov 2013 #32

dominator society Locrian Nov 2013 #50

Yes, thank you, I have Eisler chervilant Nov 2013 #53

yes - and women too Locrian Nov 2013 #56

also read "Our Guys" BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2013 #51

Thanks, I'll look for that one. chervilant Nov 2013 #54

no, hadnt heard of it. BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2013 #55

from my experience, rapey types hide it well from the good guys who might spoil their fun bettyellen Nov 2013 #42

They DO hide it. QuestForSense Nov 2013 #43

absolutely. that was a HUGE piss off for me in this whole thing. why i did not except this should seabeyond Nov 2013 #15

DeWine said the grand jury's work was done. Comrade Grumpy Nov 2013 #26

I agree, it is about damn time! n/t UtahLib Nov 2013 #5

Kick for visibility! In_The_Wind Nov 2013 #7

Oh the ruined lives, I am waiting for CNN to offer their sympathy to the football team having fun. gordianot Nov 2013 #8

certainly took them long enough. niyad Nov 2013 #9

Agreed Stargazer09 Nov 2013 #13

I want to see the head coach, whatshisname, go down. Whisp Nov 2013 #11

Oh yes Stargazer09 Nov 2013 #16

I hope they won't be the last Stargazer09 Nov 2013 #12

Fantastic, JimboBillyBubbaBob Nov 2013 #14

The Post-Gazette is reporting that the grand jury is done, and no other charges will be filed. Sheldon Cooper Nov 2013 #20

That's kind of sad, because a lot more than 4 people had a role in the cover-up... Blue_Tires Nov 2013 #29

Excellent! MicaelS Nov 2013 #21

About time. 840high Nov 2013 #22

This is excellent news! City Lights Nov 2013 #23

About damn time! NuclearDem Nov 2013 #24

Good, but could only wish there were going to be more. mbperrin Nov 2013 #25

I am glad for these indictments Gothmog Nov 2013 #33

It took them long enough appleannie1 Nov 2013 #34

"the school superintendent, two other educators" sheshe2 Nov 2013 #37

It's about damn time. Marrah_G Nov 2013 #38

good Liberal_in_LA Nov 2013 #40

I hope others will think twice before they protect the interests of rapists Skittles Nov 2013 #44

It's insane! I can't believe this happened! tofuandbeer Nov 2013 #46

hey, look, boys that like their rape porn, too.... yup. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #45

K&R NealK Nov 2013 #47

Now we need to watch what happens... ReRe Nov 2013 #48

I wonder if Candi Crowly and CNN will do a special on how devastating rape is arely staircase Nov 2013 #49

OK, that's a start. I see they got asst. coach - but TBF Nov 2013 #52