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Showing Original Post only (View all)What sexual acts do you consider to be violent? [View all]
There's obviously been a swath of various rape related threads lately, many for good reason and for good discussion, but we've also had a lot of confusion seeping into them from people talking at cross purposes.
The biggest takeaway for me in a lot of them is seeing a lot of people talking about violent sex/porn but not truly defining what they think is violent. Everyone leads different lives, has different experiences and interacts with everyone else differently, especially when it comes to sex. We've also seen studies come up from certain areas where they describe oral sex as either aggressive (to be polite) or violent itself. And other studies claiming 88% of porn online is violent.
But nobody is saying what is violent in porn? I'd love to know, both being a consumer, reviewer and interacting with many in the industry here and abroad. What do folks here consider violent in porn or just plain violent in sex acts themselves?