General Discussion
In reply to the discussion: What sexual acts do you consider to be violent? [View all]KitSileya
(4,035 posts)This is victim blaming to the nth degree - if women drink, they should know that they can be raped, so if they are raped it isn't really rape? The poster is saying that if you cause a person to be drunk it certainly isn't rape. It's there in black and white. "Neither pressuring, nor guilting, nor causing a female to be inebriated constitutes violent sex and certainly not rape." He or she is basically saying that rape is only if a stranger attacks you, and only of violence is used. Guilted, coerced, drugged "sex", none of that is rape.
Honestly, I think the jurors that voted to leave it should do some soul-searching.
"when you pressure someone into doing something that other party being pressured is not forced but rather makes a trade off between outcomes and chooses to go along." "if females are aware of the debilitating possible effects of alcohol on their willpower" such sex certainly doesn't constitute rape.
That is the poster's own words
Letting such victim blaming stand when statistically, you know a significant number of DU posters, male and female, have been raped while inebriated, is horrible.