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In reply to the discussion: What sexual acts do you consider to be violent? [View all]Prism
(5,815 posts)Ya'll have done jumped the shark, taken off your skis, and doubled back to pony ride that fish into the sunset.
It's not sex negativity I see at play here. Most people like sex. It's sexuality negativism that's the problem. Where what one person doesn't enjoy is bad for everyone else, too. Sexuality is narrowed and condemned unless the form of sexuality is approved.
Spanking is violent and wrong? Jesus. That just betrays a lack of sexual experience. And if I want people telling me what is and is not ok, yeah, it should be from people without much experience.
In every instance of spanking I've encountered - every single time - it has been the spankee requesting it. You know how many people like getting spanked and ask for it? A lot.
This is common knowledge among people who have explored sexuality to any degree.
Yet here, it's a frightening and dark mystery and proof of how horrible people are.
I'm embarrassed for people at this point.