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In reply to the discussion: My wife thoughts on the whole Rape culture and porn debates she has seen on DU [View all]
diabeticman
(3,121 posts)22. I don't know where "Rape Porn" is real? You are talking about TWO different subjects. People
who record there TRUE violence against another person or persons THAT is evidence!
The stuff that is produce by consenting adults is Porn. We are friends with a marriage couple who have viewed such films together.
A lot of married couples watch various different type of "pornographic" movies together.
Problem is some people view 2 different items as being the same!
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My wife thoughts on the whole Rape culture and porn debates she has seen on DU [View all]
diabeticman
Nov 2013
OP
rape is all about power and control. the same as your wife's post. interesting. but,
seabeyond
Nov 2013
#8
and you are missing her point. Two CONSENTING ADULTS engaged in role play is not the same
diabeticman
Nov 2013
#14
and bdsm has nothing to do with rape. they have power and control. rape the rapist has the power
seabeyond
Nov 2013
#17
but... this would not be violent. we have redefined what violent is for porn. nt
seabeyond
Nov 2013
#37
Ok - anyone who gets off on that shit is pretty messed up. That's just sick.
smirkymonkey
Nov 2013
#51
I do apologize. It amazes me how some people are just grasping at one point of my wife's rant
diabeticman
Nov 2013
#48
There have been different discussions on DU about trying to criminalize "rape porn" not to mention
diabeticman
Nov 2013
#16
Part of this has to do with UK wanting to criminalize "Rape Porn" and not just that thread but all
diabeticman
Nov 2013
#19
So she's saying "people should be free to make fake rape videos, but they should choose not to"?
muriel_volestrangler
Nov 2013
#15
What she is saying that people need to be EDUCATED more and and considering we have people
diabeticman
Nov 2013
#20
not to mention the rape porn that is real that people are getting off on, but hey, lets not even
seabeyond
Nov 2013
#21
I don't know where "Rape Porn" is real? You are talking about TWO different subjects. People
diabeticman
Nov 2013
#22
THan this is a WHOLE category of porn unknown to us or my wife's friends. Because some of the
diabeticman
Nov 2013
#24
My wife is wondering if people are seeing BDSM pictures and movies and are equating them to
diabeticman
Nov 2013
#27
maybe because some parts of SMBD involve "rape fantasies". in the middle of the role play
diabeticman
Nov 2013
#30
Oh! My wife will double check with her but she doubts they have ever encountered that.
diabeticman
Nov 2013
#33
The point of the videos is that the intended viewer thinks that it is real
muriel_volestrangler
Nov 2013
#26
what is normal porn? Some people find it unacceptable to see two girls doing sexual acts
diabeticman
Nov 2013
#29