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seabeyond

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37. but... this would not be violent. we have redefined what violent is for porn. nt

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Tue Nov 26, 2013, 03:04 PM

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My wife thoughts on the whole Rape culture and porn debates she has seen on DU [View all] diabeticman Nov 2013 OP

Your wife sounds like a very smart woman. Scuba Nov 2013 #1

Your wife is indeed very smart. Triana Nov 2013 #2

This is excellent - TBF Nov 2013 #3

something I learned when my children were small Voice for Peace Nov 2013 #4

Your wife is right on lillypaddle Nov 2013 #5

She is a really smart woman... Grey Nov 2013 #6

Love this! ColumbusLib Nov 2013 #7

rape is all about power and control. the same as your wife's post. interesting. but, seabeyond Nov 2013 #8

Your wife needs to post more. n/t LadyHawkAZ Nov 2013 #9

K&R.... daleanime Nov 2013 #10

So she is an advocate of RAPE PORN then? TroglodyteScholar Nov 2013 #11

and you are missing her point. Two CONSENTING ADULTS engaged in role play is not the same diabeticman Nov 2013 #14

and bdsm has nothing to do with rape. they have power and control. rape the rapist has the power seabeyond Nov 2013 #17

And so are you (warning, likely triggers ahead) Scootaloo Nov 2013 #32

but... this would not be violent. we have redefined what violent is for porn. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #37

Ok - anyone who gets off on that shit is pretty messed up. That's just sick. smirkymonkey Nov 2013 #51

I'm not missing the point TroglodyteScholar Nov 2013 #47

I do apologize. It amazes me how some people are just grasping at one point of my wife's rant diabeticman Nov 2013 #48

Exactly TroglodyteScholar Nov 2013 #54

Who's advocating for regulating adults having consensual sex? kcr Nov 2013 #12

There have been different discussions on DU about trying to criminalize "rape porn" not to mention diabeticman Nov 2013 #16

I know. kcr Nov 2013 #18

Exhibit A, from another thread this morning: LadyHawkAZ Nov 2013 #36

So, you can point to one person that wants to ban porn in general. kcr Nov 2013 #38

"Who's advocating for regulating adults having consensual sex?" LadyHawkAZ Nov 2013 #39

I think it was pretty straightforward. kcr Nov 2013 #42

Well, we are advancing. It's now "almost" no one. LadyHawkAZ Nov 2013 #45

Well thanks for noting that. kcr Nov 2013 #46

*sigh* OK, lessee what we got here: LadyHawkAZ Nov 2013 #49

There are good points made but where did anyone say MadrasT Nov 2013 #13

Part of this has to do with UK wanting to criminalize "Rape Porn" and not just that thread but all diabeticman Nov 2013 #19

So she's saying "people should be free to make fake rape videos, but they should choose not to"? muriel_volestrangler Nov 2013 #15

What she is saying that people need to be EDUCATED more and and considering we have people diabeticman Nov 2013 #20

not to mention the rape porn that is real that people are getting off on, but hey, lets not even seabeyond Nov 2013 #21

I don't know where "Rape Porn" is real? You are talking about TWO different subjects. People diabeticman Nov 2013 #22

The people speaking out about rape porn gollygee Nov 2013 #23

THan this is a WHOLE category of porn unknown to us or my wife's friends. Because some of the diabeticman Nov 2013 #24

People are throwing out this strawman gollygee Nov 2013 #25

My wife is wondering if people are seeing BDSM pictures and movies and are equating them to diabeticman Nov 2013 #27

No, we're talking about rape porn gollygee Nov 2013 #28

maybe because some parts of SMBD involve "rape fantasies". in the middle of the role play diabeticman Nov 2013 #30

If it says "Contains real rape scenes" on the packaging gollygee Nov 2013 #31

Oh! My wife will double check with her but she doubts they have ever encountered that. diabeticman Nov 2013 #33

In 2007, two 8-year olds and a 9-year old was accused of raping a girl. KitSileya Nov 2013 #40

Well said, gollygee. historylovr Nov 2013 #44

The point of the videos is that the intended viewer thinks that it is real muriel_volestrangler Nov 2013 #26

what is normal porn? Some people find it unacceptable to see two girls doing sexual acts diabeticman Nov 2013 #29

Rape porn is something that looks like a violent crime muriel_volestrangler Nov 2013 #34

This is something I will show my wife. I will let her answer that. diabeticman Nov 2013 #35

As I see it - and have outlined on DU before -, Shankapotomus Nov 2013 #41

Liberalism has its blind spots. truedelphi Nov 2013 #53

Power Over, or G_j Nov 2013 #43

Please thank your wife for me. woo me with science Nov 2013 #50

Sounds like you married a very insightful intelligent woman IronLionZion Nov 2013 #52