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93. Anyone else here remember The Hite Report?

It was a 1976 survey, and huge bestseller, about women's sexuality.

As I recall, many questioned her methodology, but her findings were rather groundbreaking in showing that women (like men) have all kinds of sexual ideas and fantasies, some involving BDSM, violence, and rape (and no, not simply as victim, but as perpetrator, too). She was attacked by some for being anti-feminist, I guess on the basis that her frank questions were somewhat too clinical...?

Anyway, I think there are many anti-porn voices on this board who demonstrate sexual ignorance in the sorts of twisted logic employed whenever sex or porn are discussed on this board. I am not pointing fingers at anyone specifically, but I do think it's naive to assume you'll get an informative or enlightening discussion here about these matters.