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In reply to the discussion: What sexual acts do you consider to be violent? [View all]backscatter712
(26,355 posts)You don't know who Ken Cuccinelli is? Interesting...
Ken Cuccinelli's a fundie freak, but he's a fundie freak who's also Virginia's attorney general. He has the power to file criminal charges, put people on trial, and throw them in prison. And he made it very clear that he would do that to anyone who doesn't have sex the way HE likes it. He wants to throw gay people in prison for having anal sex. If people want to get even slightly kinky in the bedroom, he wants to throw them in prison.
And if it's not Cuccinelli himself, it's going to be people like him. There's no shortage of fundamentalist right-wingers who want in your bedroom.
So is spanking violent?
In my experience, there are a lot of people who like being spanked and specifically request to be spanked during foreplay.
I draw the line at CONSENT. Sounds to me like you want to withhold from people the right to make their own decisions on what is and isn't acceptable in the bedroom. And I find that unacceptable.
Why is the concept of consent so difficult? Why is it always "consensual, but..." with you. NO. No buts. If she's giving uncoerced consent, she gets to draw the line. Not you.