We need to teach our daughters to know the difference between:

[ancianita]

25. The sons part is harder, since there are so many competing sexist messages around them as they grow.

I can actually see the relative strengths of sending each to all-girl or all-boy schools....but the merits of that are for another thread.

I was told once that men give love to get sex; women give sex to get love; neither purely gives. Of course,both genders want both, but the differences in their priorities is pretty clear for at least a few years. In any event, both girls and boys might want to consider how what they want can easily get mixed up within themselves when they feel lonely or the pressure to fit in with the crowd, or to just be validated as a person.

I like the poster. Still there's always more to say about opposite gender training. I'm never one to say that women falsely claim rape. That's almost never, ever the case. But females need to be aware of the difference between when men say they're safe, and when they're really safe.