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In reply to the discussion: Thank goodness for men who like sex [View all]CTyankee
(68,514 posts)Your point about porn (in the sense that I think you are talking about it) being boring is right on, esp. when you explore what women and men consider eroticism. It isn't a question of using sexually suggestive material v. none at all. There is a difference. Which is why some movie scenes that don't even contain nudity (but lots that do) can be enormous turn-ons for some women. Possibly the most erotic movie I ever saw was "Three Days of the Condor." The electricity in the lovemaking scenes with Redford and Dunaway was stunning. Ditto Redford and Streep in "Out of Africa." I think women and men coming together over what they find sexually stimulating is a miraculously wonderful and exciting experience. The men who know this are the best lovers, by FAR, IMO...