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lapislzi

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21. Wow, what a thoughtful reply. Thank you.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 03:58 PM
Dec 2013

Thank you for taking the time to respond, and for responding as you did. Yes, I too knew that Mr. Mandela would become president, and I did vote DP. Many of my white friends (older than we) were terrified by what this might mean and retreated into NP votes where they would not have done otherwise. I was sorry to see that happen.

What actually came to pass was far more wonderful and terrifying than any of us could have imagined. Although I watched it from afar, having repatriated to the US soon after the election, it excited me and gave me hope that SA might be a place my daughter would want to live when she grew up. And so it is. My 20-year-old is reviewing her options for continuing education and career, and UCT is on the short list.

As a foreigner entering SA society during apartheid, I shocked myself by absorbing the trappings of privilege almost reflexively. It was dangerous. I could so easily have become submerged in the casual racism that's still practiced. I'm glad my embryonic conscience developed as it did, although I wish it had happened sooner.

Message me if you want to reminisce about olden times.

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hugs nadinbrzezinski Dec 2013 #1
What a graceful post! CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2013 #2
Well said, recced Fumesucker Dec 2013 #3
And you learned from it and evolved. I admire those that face truths, no matter how Mnemosyne Dec 2013 #4
glad you regret it, i hope most others who did the same JI7 Dec 2013 #5
Who knows how many things we accept as normal today... jberryhill Dec 2013 #6
How true, how true Alameda Dec 2013 #12
Don't be sorry. babylonsister Dec 2013 #7
Thank you, friends. lapislzi Dec 2013 #8
Your story made me tear Cha Dec 2013 #9
Like Mandela, you've served your time. Let it go. merrily Dec 2013 #10
The ANC was "the other" back then. Now they're like Girl Scout Cookies. MADem Dec 2013 #11
Right you are. lapislzi Dec 2013 #19
... KentuckyWoman Dec 2013 #13
The very best thing is to learn. May we never, ever stop. nolabear Dec 2013 #14
Nice post about how we evolve and learn as we grow up.. mountain grammy Dec 2013 #15
Welcome to the human race..... Little Star Dec 2013 #16
You voted for a liberal candidate. You did better than the former Republicans here. Jim Lane Dec 2013 #17
Nice amends upi402 Dec 2013 #18
I am also a white South African, and I am not ashamed Nonhlanhla Dec 2013 #20
Wow, what a thoughtful reply. Thank you. lapislzi Dec 2013 #21
Most people have a change of heart on issues that are important davidpdx Dec 2013 #22
Why did you move to the US right after that election? oberliner Dec 2013 #23
I confess Doc Holliday Dec 2013 #24
No answer forthcoming? oberliner Dec 2013 #30
My first protests were against the Vietnam War when I was a teenager... pink-o Dec 2013 #25
i voted for Ronnie in 84 MFM008 Dec 2013 #26
Is this what is known as white guilt? HipChick Dec 2013 #27
What a powerful post! Stellar Dec 2013 #28
Aw, hell… you are a human being... MrMickeysMom Dec 2013 #29
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