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In reply to the discussion: I Passed for White and Straight, Even Though I'm Not -- How Looks Hide My Identity [View all]M0rpheus
(885 posts)44. I assume nothing.
Mostly because I don't really care that much, and the internet has taught me that anyone can be behind that keyboard. My answer is the same regardless of your ethnicity.
I've chosen to take people at face value, rather than make assumptions, pending further evidence. As a result, I've made some really good friends/contacts but, I've also been burned badly.
I'd love to just be "A Person". To myself, I am just that. Outside of my self-perception, it's considerably different in the real world. The onus is not on me to change how people perceive me, when I do nothing to engender a negative response past existing. It's not my assumptions that are the problem.
There may come a day when organizations formed as a reaction to inequality are no longer needed, but it ain't today.
The groups are not the problem. They weren't 50 years ago and, they aren't today. The inequality those groups result from is still the problem. When you count all the intersections from there, it's an even bigger one. Would you argue that groups that serve LGBT, or women also be eliminated as obsolete?
Should it come to pass that I'm no longer a minority, then I'll be me (as I always am, to myself). If asked, I'll still Identify as a black man as, that is a part of who I am.
I don't long for a world of varying shades of beige. Homogeneity, is not the answer.
I long for a world where my particular shade of brown provides me with no assumptions on my intelligence, responsibility or, criminality.
When that occurs, I'll call up GWB and ask if he's still using that "Mission Accomplished" sign.
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I Passed for White and Straight, Even Though I'm Not -- How Looks Hide My Identity [View all]
xchrom
Dec 2013
OP
Disclosing may give you a better case if there is actual discrimination going on.
rucky
Dec 2013
#62
Then you just answered why the little race bubbles NEED to be filled out as mentioned in the OP.
NM_Birder
Dec 2013
#31
"all help to keep the notion of "inequality" alive and well." because inequality is alive and well.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#65
What bullshit. They exist because inequality is alive and well. It's not a "notion."
marmar
Dec 2013
#71
It's an argument that literally makes no sense. As if ignoring racism will somehow make it vanish.
nomorenomore08
Dec 2013
#64
Maybe it was your sparkling personality, so often on display here for us at DU. nt.
Starry Messenger
Dec 2013
#45
Pretending racism doesn't exist does no one any favors. Even white people, ultimately.
nomorenomore08
Dec 2013
#61