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In reply to the discussion: Prostitution: why Swedes believe they got it right (targeting the men who pay for sex) [View all]LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)163. People can be primarily liberal and still have gender biases that are extreme right-wing
Even French, even Swedes. Even DUers.
Prostitution is an institution devoted to the notion that women exist in order to sexually service men. that money and power are an adequate substitute to being an engaged and reciprocal partner. It is capitalism at its crudest and most exploitative. It commodifies and profanes the great gift of human sexuality.
Argh. If true, it would be free and required on demand, with legal penalties for refusal. Such an institution did in fact exist, and still does in many countries: it's called marriage. We've managed to shift the balance of power in that institution and de-stigmatized divorce, remarriage, domestic violence victims, and women's rights to property, credit independent of her husband, and refusal of sexual demands: all without criminalizing husbands. I might go so far as to suggest there might be a lesson to be learned from that.
Capitalism, it is. This is not necessarily a bad thing unless (and this applies to everything from sweatshops to WalMart) that capitalism is allowed to run rampant, completely unregulated. This is what prostitution is in most of the world, due to criminalized conditions.
Incidentally, fail on #2, no misogynist social stigmas toward promiscuous women. The idea that female sexuality is a "gift" that can be "profaned" by overuse is misogynist, purity culture crap. Also, please learn to use gender-neutral terms.
Where it has been legalized, it has been legalized for the protection of MEN, not women. The johns do not get tested for diseases to protect the women--the women get disease tested to protect the men.
Thoroughly untrue on item 1; both Germany and New Zealand legalized primarily based on improving conditions for workers; unlike Sweden, which shut out input from worker's rights organizations, New Zealand's law was created with input from women's and human rights advocacy organizations.
Legal workers get tested for the exact same reason I had to have a TB test and a hep shot to get my health card in Vegas but the casino customers did not; businesses are required to take steps to prevent any preventable disease transmission by their workers, to their clientele, a process known as "regulation". Weren't you advocating in the porn threads for safety regulations in that industry? This is what it looks like. It means that the workers, for whose actions the company is responsible, have to be tested and treated to keep from exposing customers (whose actions cannot be controlled by the company) to illness, and precautions are taken to further prevent transmission in the event that the testing fails.
In a restaurant, for example, this takes the form of TB testing, proper food storage at mandated temperatures, and proper cooking to mandated temperatures. For sex workers, it's monthly tests and condoms.
Also, if conditions improve for the workers, I'd still be pretty happy even if it were just a side effect of legalized orgasms. I'm not sure why the idea of reduced harm and improved conditions would disturb you under any circumstances.
No, I lie. I know why.
It has always been about making it easier for men to exert their privilege to have women on demand, as implemented through social and economic inequality.
Again, if true, it would be free. If you have to pay someone and they have to agree to accept your money and provide the service, it's not "on demand", it is "when resources permit and the other party consents".
#2 fail again, for assuming as usual that women (only women! only ever women!) have no capacity for consent.
In Germany and the Netherlands, legalization lead to a massive rise in sex trafficking because there were a lot more German men and Dutch men wanting to pay for sex than there were Dutch and German women willing to sell it--at any price--because they were educated, and had social equality such that they had other options.
Germany has not experienced a rise in trafficking; it experienced a drop. Put 10 people in a room and you'll get 15 different opinions on why the Netherlands has risen (even controlling for the numbers padding since 2005, there has been some rise) while Germany and New Zealand did not. I have my own opinion, which I won't share here.
If it was all about legalization, though, Norway and Sweden would be seeing a drop, and instead they are seeing a rise.
Here is the list of Tier 3 countries for this year (2013):
Algeria
Central African Republic
China
Cuba
Democratic Republic of Congo
Guinea-Bissau
Iran
North Korea
Kuwait
Libya
Mauritania
Papua New Guinea
Russia
Saudi Arabia
Sudan
Syria
Uzbekistan
Yemen
Zimbabwe
Out of those 19 countries, zero have legalized prostitution although 2 are decriminalized. If you're genuinely worried about trafficking problems and are not just trying to impose a moral standard on promiscuous women, I would submit that you're looking in the wrong direction.
And one more thing:

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Prostitution: why Swedes believe they got it right (targeting the men who pay for sex) [View all]
pampango
Dec 2013
OP
No 'they' didn't. Reagan gave amnesty to the illegals in '86 and it didn't work then,
Egalitarian Thug
Dec 2013
#103
they also have an escalation of sex slave trafficking and the prostitutes are abused as much if not
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#11
germany, ireland, france, australia and even amsterdamn are all looking to shift. nt
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#63
really clever people. i am sure they are. why would you think they are not? they tried
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#68
that was really hitting it out in left field with a couple wild pitches in my direction. whatever
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#76
people differ on the view. i am not buying one way or another. i think most people are feeling the
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#88
What two consenting adults do in private should be left private, including trading sex for money.
lightcameron
Dec 2013
#5
yet, you can only stomach the conversation when it is nicely wrapped up in the "pretty woman",
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#12
and this would be the illusion wyou create that you can only narrowly define it in such a manner
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#25
no. you did not get to the "heart of the matter". you swung and missed. but, a predictable
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#27
"pretty woman" seems to be all you hold near and dear in the huge scope of the issue, cameron.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#29
lol. wowser. whatevah. stay with pretty woman, then you can digest the abuse, the trafficking,
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#31
Yep. There's a reason that most of the prostitutes in Germany and Amsterdam are foreign nationals.
redqueen
Dec 2013
#108
Much as the phrase "consenting adults" in these discussions means "I have a right to pay for sex..."
LanternWaste
Dec 2013
#140
Prostitution is not consent. You have a weird notion about what "consent" is.
duffyduff
Dec 2013
#20
"If "civil libertarians" are ever right about a goddamned thing it would be a miracle."
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
Dec 2013
#32
Lower-tier prostitutes don't do particularly better than walmart workers. It's the same system
El_Johns
Dec 2013
#41
Because wearing a cheesy blue vest and stocking shelves is not as degrading
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#52
It's a good way to fill in employment gaps on a resume/application when you're working
LadyHawkAZ
Dec 2013
#74
ok. probably more efficient putting prostitute than homemaker. but.. ok. thanks. nt
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#77
Heh, you go on telling yourself that defending an institition created to serve men
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#148
People can be primarily liberal and still have gender biases that are extreme right-wing
LadyHawkAZ
Dec 2013
#163
Hey, if you think I'm misogynist for disliking men who wank to rape porn . . .
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#173
Those things could happen, but don't see how you could consider it at all comparable
treestar
Dec 2013
#155
You also don't think anyone can consent to have sex in front of a camera, right?
Warren DeMontague
Dec 2013
#43
So, you're saying that people with financial pressures and/or drug addiction shouldn't be allowed to
EOTE
Dec 2013
#127
There are prostitutes who aren't on any drugs and enjoy getting paid for sex.
phleshdef
Dec 2013
#168
a) That's simply not true, and b) if it were true, it would be a reason *not* to ban prostitution.
Donald Ian Rankin
Dec 2013
#15
(a) they aren't eligible for unemployment; (b) demand reduction is part of the
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#16
At most, "follow, if and when that has succeeded", not "be joined to". N.T.
Donald Ian Rankin
Dec 2013
#112
My elderly relatives told me that prostitution grew in their farming town during the Depression &
El_Johns
Dec 2013
#36
The Socialists in France who championed the bill there did a wonderful job defending it.
redqueen
Dec 2013
#17
That is the inevitable end to this path. None of the nations did what they did
Egalitarian Thug
Dec 2013
#104
Ugh, you must have a really low opinion of men. This is what real misandry looks like.
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#45
if it's economic activity the government is perfectly justified in regulating
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#171
Your call. Deliberately distorting Guttmacher's research conclusions for your own agenda
riderinthestorm
Dec 2013
#160
You can extend that argument as far as you like and the results will remain exactly the same.
Egalitarian Thug
Dec 2013
#106
"Trafficking" has become synonymous in the public mind with "sex trafficking",
LadyHawkAZ
Dec 2013
#149
So I'm not allowed to reference a study authored by two feminists because you said so?
Major Nikon
Dec 2013
#60
good analogy about forcing desert down someones throat cause they "appear" as if maybe they really
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#64
he validates family members being sexually involved and he promotes rape. now was how many decades
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#87
We have forgotten that before we began calling this date rape and date fraud, we called it exciting.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#93
you are saying those are not actual quotes out of the book? that these words are not being read by
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#97
ok. i am not gonna read all that garbage trying to find out how it is game set match when i quote
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#99
Had you ever asked me my thoughts on the subject you might find they align quite well with yours
Major Nikon
Dec 2013
#101
You're the one digging in and defending someone explicitly arguing to legalize rape
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#119
You're linking to a wikipedia page instead of trying to defend that language.
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#134
Why should I bother spending time debunking your baseless accusations when that's already been done?
Major Nikon
Dec 2013
#153
That you consider legalizing date rape a rational argument says enough. nt
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#118
Just throwing out there that many USA state statutes criminalize the acts of soliciting prostitution
Johonny
Dec 2013
#50
There's a big difference between fucking someone and getting fucked in capitalism
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#59
I can't think of one instance where banning the vices of consenting adults has worked
Major Nikon
Dec 2013
#111