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45. I think your glee is misplaced

Fri Dec 13, 2013, 06:12 PM

Dec 2013

I could not have said it better.

Another asthma sufferer here, whose mom smoked while pregnant with me. I was born with pneumonia and had bronchial/pneumonia problems my whole childhood...and now athsma all my adult life (I've never smoked). Thanks to those smokers who understand what their secondhand smoke does to many people, and how many families have lost loved ones to cigarette smoke (first or secondhand).

I have no problem with anyone I don't care about smoking...but I have to admit I'm concerned about those I care about, whether it's an addiction to nicotine or drugs or alcohol. None of which are healthy for you at addiction levels.

But I do have a problem with smokers sharing their smoke with those who do not smoke. At least when you drink or do drugs, you aren't sharing it with anyone involuntarily.

Just wanted to add, I think what the restaurant owner did was very sweet. No one should be ostracized and that is not my intent in asking smokers to keep their smoke to approved areas only.

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I think your glee is misplaced passiveporcupine Dec 2013 #45

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