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In reply to the discussion: INDIAN AD TURNS THE MALE GAZE BACK ON ITSELF AND IT'S AWESOME [View all]Soundman
(297 posts)Here is my thoughts on the matter, not that they matter though.
Posting the same tired unverifiable talking points does no make them true. It is a theme I keep seeing regurgitated over and over here. It's not about sex it's about this, that, blah, blah, blah. I am around thousands of men a year. The setting is usually in a bar where people are liberally inebriated. I can't remember one time hearing a guy say I want to dominate that xxxxx, or any such tripe. I do hear the stereotypical remarks of I'd like to tap that, etc. That is the typical conversation at the urinal. I hear it every night.
Based on my decades upon decades of observations I would say a lot of guys like sex...a lot.. They like sex all the time, they seem to like variety. They would probably have sex all day everyday with multiple partners if they could. They don't want sex with unwilling partners, they want unbridled no limits fun. I would say based on my observations a large portion of the male population is monogamous due to lack of opportunity and the associated guilt.
I am sure there are low t guys with extra doses of estrogen that don't see this. In my world travels I have found that those who are vehemently against something more than likely are hiding something. And it usually has something to do with his or her unusual fanaticism.
Sorry if that doesn't fit their paradigm but it is what I see on a daily basis when people have less inhibition. Not too mention, 54 percent of woman admit to having an affair so I'd say the feeling is mutual among normal people.