This is how special interest evangelism fails (sexism)

[boston bean]

3. I've read most threads and what you write

is not at all what is being said, but how you read them, and I think purposely failing to actually look at an example given and why and how it is responded to.

Instead you make it up. There have been no discussions by feminists that meet the scenario you have laid out here.

It's actually laughable.

You show me the scenario where you proclaim this is happening:

"So when I was at the store today a lady was having problems with her shopping cart, she had a small child in it and the wheel was busted. I offered to grab her another one so she didn't have to push that thing all the way to front of the store to get another with all those groceries and a baby."

And feminists think you are a rapist, looking for a lay, checking her out, asserting privilege, hunting, fantasizing...

In actuality all of those things have probably been said at some point or another (not about you in particular, but about a certain situation a woman finds herself in), but not about a man finding a new carriage for a woman with a baby, because the wheel is broken.

You set it up and knock it down, yet it has no basis in reality.