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JoePhilly

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39. Its going to cost your child. You can't help everyone.

Tue Dec 24, 2013, 12:12 PM

Dec 2013

And your going to end up in a situation where the "cost" will impact your child the most.

The idea of helping "no matter what the cost" is a noble one, but the reality is that at some point, you are robbing "Peter" (your son) to pay Paul (mother in law).

This is the reason liberals push for social programs. Very few people in this world have the financial means to help everyone that they'd like to help.

But together, we can help far more people than we can as individuals.

Your spouse and mother in law need to understand who is ultimately paying the "cost" in this situation, and its your child. They both have to come to grips the financial reality here and make some changes. Perhaps mom needs to become your dependent, or she declares bankruptcy. Something has to change.

If they don't understand that they are putting their needs ahead of that child, you have a very serious problem to work out.

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The black helicopters come and take HereSince1628 Dec 2013 #1

You aren't insured starting in Jan -That's all. JimDandy Dec 2013 #2

Let them try to fine me. PowerToThePeople Dec 2013 #5

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i need help with the exchange.... please, someone! w100jmi Dec 2013 #4

Call the number found here. Its the official ACA phone number. JoePhilly Dec 2013 #6

. w100jmi Dec 2013 #11

Sounds like you need to resolve the issue of your wife's JoePhilly Dec 2013 #18

i dont know w100jmi Dec 2013 #37

Its going to cost your child. You can't help everyone. JoePhilly Dec 2013 #39

That is the issue! w100jmi Dec 2013 #44

Wow does this sound familiar. JoePhilly Dec 2013 #47

Are you really saying kick out the disabled 69 yr old mother so they can have affordable health insu uppityperson Dec 2013 #43

Since I didn't say that, the answer obviously, is "No". JoePhilly Dec 2013 #45

re w100jmi Dec 2013 #46

Thank younfor clarifying and my apologies for being so abrupt. uppityperson Dec 2013 #50

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employ w100jmi Dec 2013 #27

Then you can't use the exchange. Motown_Johnny Dec 2013 #28

not what i want to hear, but thank you. w100jmi Dec 2013 #29

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