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madfloridian

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19. My best to you. Lost my hubby this year also.

Tue Dec 24, 2013, 08:25 PM

Dec 2013

My hubby passed away in the spring. I am getting through the holidays quietly, as that is the only way I can do it.

Last week I accidentally ran across a flag he would put up in place of our FL Gator flag for a few days at Christmas. It was folded up in a drawer. I had forgotten all about it.

It had a picture of the Grinch, and it said in big letters Bah Humbug. It was a large flag, very noticeable.

He used to chuckle when he put it out, and he always took it down before the neighbors got too upset. It was his way of protesting all the ads we were seeing before Thanksgiving. It was tongue in cheek, the neighbors knew it.

It was so hard seeing that flag, one of those things that brings back so much.

You are in my thoughts and prayers. Big hug sent your way.

In fact I am sure it is a group hug.

I will keep that flag as a memory.

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