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Showing Original Post only (View all)I Didn't Tell Facebook I'm Engaged, So Why Is It Asking About My Fiancé? [View all]
A good example on how Facebook mines data from innocuous posts:
The morning began with my typical browsing routine: email, top-reads RSS news feed, a brief scan of Twitter, then Facebook. I found friends wrapping up at SXSW, some chatter about Kony, pictures of new babies, and then I noticed something out of the ordinary in the right hand column:
how well do you know nick smith.png
It's not the first time I've gotten an engagement ring advertisement. But what's this? Facebook is directly asking me to comment on the nature of my relationship to Nick Smith? That's something new. And weird.
Because, as it turns out, Nick Smith and I are engaged.
We contacted Facebook to ask them about what might have happened. A spokesman got back to us right away. First, the placement of the ad and the question was an accident. That is to say, Facebook wanted to show me the ad and it wanted to ask me the question, but the fact that they showed up at the same time was coincidental. Second, I was probably targeted for an engagement ring ad because of some things I posted about our wedding or on the basis that I'm a woman of marrying age. Third, Facebook's spokesman said that my answer to the question about Nick was just for Facebook's social graph, not for advertisers.
More here:
http://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2012/03/i-didnt-tell-facebook-im-engaged-so-why-is-it-asking-about-my-fianc/254479/
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I Didn't Tell Facebook I'm Engaged, So Why Is It Asking About My Fiancé? [View all]
Julian Englis
Mar 2012
OP
Are you speaking of web based email or email from a PC based email tool, or both. My take is
RKP5637
Mar 2012
#8
Yep, that's what I do too, just my local company, not "gmail or yahoo or any of the others." n/t
RKP5637
Mar 2012
#28
Yep, same here!!! Also, I would never have a Facebook or Twitter account either. n/t
RKP5637
Mar 2012
#6
It's probably just a matter of time. "I for one am getting the canned veggys all lined up in
RKP5637
Mar 2012
#9
Same way as google and yahoo have joined together. They said they would be reading the content of
freshwest
Mar 2012
#5
I'll give it a try. My friends and I still have myspace accounts that just sit there.
freshwest
Mar 2012
#21
FB exists only to data mine and profile you for advertisers and intelligence agencies. It is not
leveymg
Mar 2012
#7
Yep, and similar to Google, Yahoo, Twitter, all of them. They are in it for the money. Nothing
RKP5637
Mar 2012
#17
I don't use them. Typically, anymore, I use alternatives to Google and anonymous searches. I don't
RKP5637
Mar 2012
#43
What search engine alternatives? Would like to know why you think any are safe.
leveymg
Mar 2012
#57
If you subscribe, then their system is always available. During heavy usage periods they
RKP5637
Mar 2012
#62
Never use Facebook. And still, through email, get targeted ads related to topics
LuckyLib
Mar 2012
#20
Yep, I get stuff like this too via snail mail gotten via the public records. n/t
RKP5637
Mar 2012
#29
I think what has happened is a misunderstanding. BTW, I agree with what you say, these
RKP5637
Mar 2012
#48
Not in the early days there weren't, and then they were long and confusing. And many sites
RKP5637
Mar 2012
#51
If you go back to about the mid-nineties, T's & C's were very weak if at all in existence. Privacy
RKP5637
Mar 2012
#54
Oh, holy hell! Just after I posted this, DU is recommending cheap eyewear.
TheManInTheMac
Mar 2012
#71