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CrispyQ

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7. We're all in this together & when we build societies based on that premise, we all do better.
Sun Dec 29, 2013, 12:27 PM
Dec 2013

America has embraced hyper-individualism - we value the individual over the community. IMO, it's part of why our culture is a cesspool. We've gone along with the attitude that just because an individual has the right to do/say something, they should be allowed to do/say it. A decent culture sets standards & says, OK, maybe you have the right to do that, but it's not going to be something we encourage, & in fact, some types of behavior should be actively discouraged. The Duck Dynasty thing comes to mind. Sure, Robertson (?) has the right to express his bigotry, but as a culture, we also have a right to say we don't want to hear it & to discourage talk/behavior that damages the community.

As an aside, it seems that western masculinity is also based on hyper-individualism. The media portrays today's ultimate man as a guy who does everything on his own, never asks for help, & doesn't need anyone. We could undo so much damage if we would simply embrace community, if we would learn that there has to be a balance between individuals & community.

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Wow, the opposite of austerity actually works? 99Forever Dec 2013 #1
Long ago, in a poli sci course... pinboy3niner Dec 2013 #2
Geez. That was an expensive lesson. loudsue Dec 2013 #4
That lesson was to serve me well pinboy3niner Dec 2013 #5
That's great, pinboy! loudsue Dec 2013 #6
rec! SammyWinstonJack Dec 2013 #3
We're all in this together & when we build societies based on that premise, we all do better. CrispyQ Dec 2013 #7
Insightful post. Kicking here. n/t freshwest Dec 2013 #8
Hi there Crisp!!! PatSeg Dec 2013 #9
I think it's worse for men, too. CrispyQ Jan 2014 #16
That whole rugged individualism thing PatSeg Jan 2014 #17
+1 El_Johns Dec 2013 #13
Didn't used to be that way. Igel Dec 2013 #14
But giving money to poor people takes it away from rich people, and that's the worst thing valerief Dec 2013 #10
k&r n/t RainDog Dec 2013 #11
Brazilian social security programme receives prestigious ISSA award ProSense Dec 2013 #12
A big KICK! countryjake Dec 2013 #15
People are poor because they have no money SoCalDem Jan 2014 #18
that is mstinamotorcity2 Jan 2014 #19
K&R woo me with science Jan 2014 #20
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