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In reply to the discussion: Doctors saying brain dead; patients saying otherwise [View all]Chan790
(20,176 posts)you're beginning to turn me off from wanting to agree with you.
I've spent a lot of time in hospitals, more than I probably should have...there were a period where I was working on a novel and a good way to make a living while writing is/was to take jobs as caretaker/companions for terminally-ill people...point is, I've spent a lot of time around people on ventilators and in ICUs. From there, I became an advocate for people who wish for home funeral and home-burial...I've seen a lot of dead people; washed them, waked them, shrouded them, buried them.
There's a difference between people in comas on life-support recovering from injury or illness...and people who are brain-dead mechanically-aspirated flesh. Dead is dead. They're not people anymore...the spirit or soul or animus or whatever has left...they're bodies, if you stop flagellating artificial life into them they cease to function.
I'm sorry if that's crass and blunt but we need to be crass and blunt and honest about death.