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Fri Mar 16, 2012, 04:00 AM Mar 2012

'We Have No Choice': One Woman's Ordeal with Texas' New Sonogram Law [View all]

Halfway through my pregnancy, I learned that my baby was ill. Profoundly so. My doctor gave us the news kindly, but still, my husband and I weren’t prepared. Just a few minutes earlier, we’d been smiling giddily at fellow expectant parents as we waited for the doctor to see us. In a sonography room smelling faintly of lemongrass, I’d just had gel rubbed on my stomach, just seen blots on the screen become tiny hands. For a brief, exultant moment, we’d seen our son—a brother for our 2-year-old girl.
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My counselor said that the law required me to have another ultrasound that day, and that I was legally obligated to hear a doctor describe my baby. I’d then have to wait 24 hours before coming back for the procedure. She said that I could either see the sonogram or listen to the baby’s heartbeat, adding weakly that this choice was mine.

“I don’t want to have to do this at all,” I told her. “I’m doing this to prevent my baby’s suffering. I don’t want another sonogram when I’ve already had two today. I don’t want to hear a description of the life I’m about to end. Please,” I said, “I can’t take any more pain.” I confess that I don’t know why I said that. I knew it was fait accompli. The counselor could no more change the government requirement than I could. Yet here was a superfluous layer of torment piled upon an already horrific day, and I wanted this woman to know it.
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“I’m so sorry that I have to do this,” the doctor told us, “but if I don’t, I can lose my license.” Before he could even start to describe our baby, I began to sob until I could barely breathe. Somewhere, a nurse cranked up the volume on a radio, allowing the inane pronouncements of a DJ to dull the doctor’s voice. Still, despite the noise, I heard him. His unwelcome words echoed off sterile walls while I, trapped on a bed, my feet in stirrups, twisted away from his voice.

“Here I see a well-developed diaphragm and here I see four healthy chambers of the heart...”
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http://www.texasobserver.org/cover-story/the-right-not-to-know

This is beyond cruel. It serves no purpose except to torment women who are considering an abortion for whatever reasons.
How dare these immoral shites impose this kind of "law" on anybody? Many of these cretins have
skeletons in their closets that would at least raise eyebrows.
And these same assholes claim they want government out of everything.
Meh!








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The problem is THERE is no MALE equalivant to such a terrible event that I beginning to think Justice wanted Mar 2012 #1
I wish there was so EARTH SHATTERING, PAINFUL, INVASIVE and LIFE THWARTING roguevalley Mar 2012 #28
there is 1-prostate exam StarsInHerHair Mar 2012 #42
ALL THE MORE REASON TO GET OUT AND VOTE! Throw the bums OUT, post haste. CarmanK Mar 2012 #35
Have gotten my ABSENTEE BALLOTS for primary and on order for GENERAL ELECTION. CarmanK Mar 2012 #36
WTF. Seriously. This is freaking insane. DLevine Mar 2012 #2
Awful CAPHAVOC Mar 2012 #5
. lunatica Mar 2012 #3
This is deliberate torture! MarianJack Mar 2012 #4
When did this law go into effect? Matariki Mar 2012 #6
Plus, they get charged for the torture. Ilsa Mar 2012 #7
There was an interview with Perry socialindependocrat Mar 2012 #12
Unwanted penetration is rape - Why is this allowed? socialindependocrat Mar 2012 #8
This is the kind of fascist bullshit that misogyny leads to. Chorophyll Mar 2012 #9
Kick. nt Chorophyll Mar 2012 #10
Government is evil when it interfers with peoples lives... RegieRocker Mar 2012 #11
+1000 nt abelenkpe Mar 2012 #18
There a provision in the law B2G Mar 2012 #13
These "Rape by Government" laws are horrible. Walk away Mar 2012 #14
Kicking Original excuse not to write Mar 2012 #15
When Dr. Tiller was murdered, hundreds of his patients came forward and told their stories. proud2BlibKansan Mar 2012 #16
Do you mean pro-choice anti-alec Mar 2012 #21
No I mean pro-abortion proud2BlibKansan Mar 2012 #22
I'm with you. xmas74 Mar 2012 #30
I got it all right... anti-alec Mar 2012 #33
This, THIS is the heartbreaking reality. nolabear Mar 2012 #17
I am so profoundly sorry for you and your husband having to experience such a horror. Dont call me Shirley Mar 2012 #19
fascist conservative party SkyNeT13 Mar 2012 #20
Is the ACLU losing its mojo? tcaudilllg Mar 2012 #23
There are ways the doctors and nurses can mock and undermine these laws bluestateguy Mar 2012 #24
They won't do that. tcaudilllg Mar 2012 #26
Is the ACLU losing its mojo? tcaudilllg Mar 2012 #25
Want A Gun Permit? Get A Catheter marias23 Mar 2012 #27
What strikes me about this essay is that the woman herself hedgehog Mar 2012 #29
Just like with pot - it's rape under federal law, and the doctors can be charged. Will they? saras Mar 2012 #31
I do not understad why medical xxqqqzme Mar 2012 #32
In Kansas, a new law was going to cause the state university medical school to lose accreditation proud2BlibKansan Mar 2012 #34
Hate the law? Thank every Democrat for sitting out November 2010 derby378 Mar 2012 #37
Next thing you know they will be cutting off eyelids so women will HAVE to look at it. They're sick judesedit Mar 2012 #38
Sorry... for this Dan Mar 2012 #39
The Law Violates The Hypocratic Oath DallasNE Mar 2012 #40
Rape crisis centers need to start helping women through this ordeal. McCamy Taylor Mar 2012 #41
All thinking Texans are ashamed of our gov. and state legislature for this DFW Mar 2012 #43
These doctors have to stand up & refuse Viva Mar 2012 #44
I cannot believe the AMA is just cowing to the RW felix_numinous Mar 2012 #45
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