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In reply to the discussion: For some of my fellow white people, who feel you have been victimized due to your race [View all]DesertFlower
(11,649 posts)3 white women -- 2 african american.
the 2 african american women thought i came from priviledge because i wore nice clothes and jewelry. they were shocked when i told them how i grew up -- not enough money to take ham sandwiches for lunch at school -- had to eat bologna -- wore hand me down clothes. graduated high school at age 16 and had to work and pay room and board to help my mom. grew up in a cold water flat. i was sterotyped.
in many ways being white and attractive worked for me. i'm 72 years old. my first jobs were as a receptionist. back then only attractive white women were hired to sit at the front desk and represent the company.
my husband was passed up for a promotion because of quotas. an african american man got the job. hubby had to wait another 2 years for that promotion. his manager was truthful about it.
once those 2 women realized how i grew up their attitude changed toward me.