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In reply to the discussion: Retired police captain kills texter in theater during movie trailer [View all]Quixote1818
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Is It OK to Use Your Phone Before the Movie Starts?
Yes. Of course. The lights are up, so who is it going to bother, except the friend sitting next to you who youre ignoring so you can text your friend sitting on the other side of him. In fact, I often wear headphones and catch up on TV shows while Im waiting for the film to start because it ensures that no one will speak to me and I wont have to hear their boneheaded guesses at the pre-movie trivia. When youre attending screenings of movies like Grown Ups 2, its important not to be able to inadvertently eavesdrop on others conversations, lest you lose all faith in humanity.
Is It OK to Use Your Phone During the Previews?
This is a tougher call. Its definitely OK during the pre-movie commercials, but use your judgement during the previews. If youre in a very crowded theater, I would strongly discourage it. But on the other hand, glaring at someone or asking them to turn off their phone during the previews is also kind of a dick move, too. Theyre trailers: Try not to get a bug up your ass if someones phone light is illuminated during the trailer for The Smurfs 2.
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How Do You Deal with Someone Who Is Texting in Your Vicinity?
People who are rude enough to text or talk on the phone during a movie are not likely the kind of people who are going to respond to your passive agressiveness. You can give them the stink eye and/or the stink-eye/loud sigh combination all damn day, but its probably not going to get you anywhere. These people also have an inordinate amount of pride, so if you ask them to put away their phone, youre probably only going to rile them up. I would also discourage you from seeking the manager, because 1) youll miss part of the movie, 2) no one likes a snitch, and 3) youre not likely to get the manager. Youre more likely to get the teenager who is ripping ticket stubs in half, and God knows he doesnt want to say anything to the rude guy any more than you do. Youll just make his terrible job even more terrible.
The best thing to do, honestly, is just to get up and move.
If that, however, is not an option, what the a rude texter will respond to is crazy. People are scared of crazy people, even if youre slight of frame. So heres what you do: Remove your shoes and socks. Place your shoes on top of the armrests. Remove all of the contents of your pocket and place them inside of your shoes. Pull your arms inside of your shirt sleeves. Begin quietly slapping yourself with your loose shirt sleeves.
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