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magical thyme

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66. I was office-stalked and harassed by an Indian man in the US

Wed Jan 15, 2014, 08:10 PM

Jan 2014

He was married with a child. Creepy, hideous man made my working life hell for 8 months.

And at another company where I worked, the founders were a married Indian couple. That man fixated on the HR director. His stalking was so bad that her boss and her assistant worked out a schedule so that the director was never alone when he was in the building. One or the other of them was always with her for her protection. Their entire schedule based on protecting a stalking target. Another creepy, hideous man with zero respect for women.

So for those 2 at least, the prospect of not getting a date was irrelevent to their harassing behavior. Mysogeny, yes.

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Indian Police Hold 15 Men for Gang Raping Danish Tourist [View all] Jesus Malverde Jan 2014 OP

"...Male attitudes that leave ordinary women vulnerable to attack?" XemaSab Jan 2014 #1

It's very revealing. redqueen Jan 2014 #19

the girl that was raped and then burned to death, a male politician tried to make excuses JI7 Jan 2014 #29

For officials on India to have behaved as they did after a diplomat with limited immunity redqueen Jan 2014 #33

SHE HAD A SLAVE! XemaSab Jan 2014 #55

I'm heading that way myself XemaSab Jan 2014 #31

Ha! redqueen Jan 2014 #36

You have no idea XemaSab Jan 2014 #56

That really stuck out for me too. Matariki Jan 2014 #58

Sometimes I wonder what kind of world we live in. Gravitycollapse Jan 2014 #2

India is especially bad right now Warpy Jan 2014 #6

"Eve teasing" Recursion Jan 2014 #9

Arm the women leftynyc Jan 2014 #24

Interesting thanks...nt Jesus Malverde Jan 2014 #57

Looks like women don't need to travel to India by themselves. LuvNewcastle Jan 2014 #3

Well Dorian Gray Jan 2014 #17

It's called Aerows Jan 2014 #26

I understand that Dorian Gray Jan 2014 #40

I didn't make that up; I've seen reports about it. Here's one: LuvNewcastle Jan 2014 #69

This message was self-deleted by its author LuvNewcastle Jan 2014 #68

I wouldn't go to India now Aerows Jan 2014 #25

I really resent not being able to travel where I want because some men can't control themselves Matariki Jan 2014 #59

Who said anything about a "male escort?" LuvNewcastle Jan 2014 #70

Very wierd Egnever Jan 2014 #4

Imagine it was impossible to get more than 5 feet away from other people Recursion Jan 2014 #7

Isn't China like that also? get the red out Jan 2014 #34

That's what I meant about how it doesn't get to why there's rape in the first place Recursion Jan 2014 #67

Imagine you have no prospects of ever getting a date jeff47 Jan 2014 #18

Oh, well, no prospects of getting a date Aerows Jan 2014 #27

Yes, I never knew get the red out Jan 2014 #35

Luckily Aerows Jan 2014 #43

Good thing you didn't bother reading the entire post. jeff47 Jan 2014 #41

My goodness Aerows Jan 2014 #42

Point to where I am minimizing the problem. jeff47 Jan 2014 #47

What's causing these rapes get the red out Jan 2014 #45

No one's saying they are not causing the rapes. jeff47 Jan 2014 #49

How about other countries, first world? get the red out Jan 2014 #51

And where do I say anything about such countries? jeff47 Jan 2014 #52

It's not supposed to excuse it mythology Jan 2014 #62

sounds like a recipe for wars Matariki Jan 2014 #60

Gotta get rid of the "extra" men somehow..... (nt) jeff47 Jan 2014 #61

I was thinking that the 'hawks' in govenment would want to use all that pent up agression Matariki Jan 2014 #63

I was office-stalked and harassed by an Indian man in the US magical thyme Jan 2014 #66

Gang rape happens all over the world. This isn't about Indian culture, specifically. nt redqueen Jan 2014 #20

obviously Egnever Jan 2014 #21

India is simply in the spotlight. redqueen Jan 2014 #22

Note to self, avoid going to India. Beacool Jan 2014 #5

I hope the response to this is like it was two years ago Recursion Jan 2014 #8

Here's an Indian outlet's article on it (avoid the comments unless you have your barf bag) Recursion Jan 2014 #10

there are already prostitutes there JI7 Jan 2014 #11

i'm at the point where i would not care if they had public hangings or beheadings of rapists JI7 Jan 2014 #12

I have no issue with it get the red out Jan 2014 #38

Start with public castrations. Common Sense Party Jan 2014 #53

India's male problem... shaayecanaan Jan 2014 #13

why didn't China have the rape problem ? JI7 Jan 2014 #14

I'm not certain that they don't... shaayecanaan Jan 2014 #15

Kidnapping and forced marriage of young women is fairly common in tblue37 Jan 2014 #23

yes, there is rape everywhere , but the problem seems much worse in india JI7 Jan 2014 #28

Sort of begs the question temporary311 Jan 2014 #46

it is certainly reported on more compared to many countries that don't have free press JI7 Jan 2014 #50

They hate on women Aerows Jan 2014 #30

I agree completely get the red out Jan 2014 #37

"VILE country" shaayecanaan Jan 2014 #65

Its a fairly predictable outcome... shaayecanaan Jan 2014 #64

Holy shit Dorian Gray Jan 2014 #16

Is it the norm in the UK? In France? Here? redqueen Jan 2014 #32

It makes me sick Dorian Gray Jan 2014 #39

Dominque Strauss Kahn has been able to get away with it JI7 Jan 2014 #44

Does India have a Tourist Board or a Chamber of Commerce? lpbk2713 Jan 2014 #48

Oh sh*t DonCoquixote Jan 2014 #54