Do you ever feel "in the closet" about your atheism/agnostic views? [View all]
I was just wondering if anyone else -- who isn't into organized religion and is often turned off by much of what happens with organized religion and churches today -- feels that they must hide their opinions and beliefs?
As I read more, learn more and grow more--I find myself being completely unable to identify with this
new brand of religious extremism that is so intertwined with politics.
There is nothing wrong with going to church, if it makes a person feel good and be a better person. However, today's "Christian" seems rabid, unreasonable, judgmental and very suspicious and critical of anyone who does not subscribe to their views.
I just cannot relate to any of this. I find it repulsive, ignorant and really sad. And it's difficult, because I consider myself a spiritual person. I believe that religion is so pervasive--because we are spiritual beings and as human beings we all cartwheel toward deeper meaning--because there is something beyond all of this--possibly. I do not know what that "something else" is or for sure that there really is a "something else" and I'm ok with that. I don't think we can know for certain, the answers to these grand questions.
My opinions and beliefs fit with NO CHURCH, of which I am aware. I don't know about many of you--but
I am surrounded by church-going people who are suspicious of anyone who doesn't go to Church or who
doesn't send their kids to church youth group. I practically feel as if I have to hide the fact that we
don't go to church! I tried to politely argue the separation of church and state and I have people who
think that I am evil now!
I feel as if I'm religiously--in the closet! Does anyone else ever feel this way? Do you feel as if you must
hide your lack of religion?
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