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In reply to the discussion: Reports: 3 boys assaulted girl before her suicide [View all]davidn3600
(6,342 posts)163. What about Elizabeth Hasselbeck?
A lot of it comes from the right wing, though. You got people like Elizabeth Hasselbeck on Fox News saying feminists and "wussy men" are a national security concern. Or Brit Hume blaming feminism for why "real men" like Chris Christie are viewed as bullies.
I hear this a lot by conservatives folks. They say Obama isn't man enough and they constantly compare him to Putin. A female candidate will have an even tougher time than Obama had breaking through that mentality. There are a lot of people out there (male and female) who feel we need to have a strong male figure as president in order for other nations to respect us.
This is a good article too...
In a recent survey, 51% of Americans told the Pew Research Center that children were better off if their mother was at home. Only 8% said the same about fathers. Even seeking time off can be troublesome for men: One University of South Florida study found that college students rated hypothetical employees wanting flexible schedules as less masculine.
Other research points to an enduring stigma for boys whose behavior is seen as feminine. "If girls call themselves tomboys, it's with a sense of pride," said University of Illinois at Chicago sociology professor Barbara Risman. "But boys make fun of other boys if they step just a little outside the rigid masculine stereotype."
Two years ago, for instance, a Global Toy Experts survey found that more than half of mothers wouldn't give a doll to someone else's son, while only 32% said the same about giving cars or trucks to a girl. Several studies have found that bending gender stereotypes in childhood is tied to worse anxiety for men than women in adulthood.
Other research points to an enduring stigma for boys whose behavior is seen as feminine. "If girls call themselves tomboys, it's with a sense of pride," said University of Illinois at Chicago sociology professor Barbara Risman. "But boys make fun of other boys if they step just a little outside the rigid masculine stereotype."
Two years ago, for instance, a Global Toy Experts survey found that more than half of mothers wouldn't give a doll to someone else's son, while only 32% said the same about giving cars or trucks to a girl. Several studies have found that bending gender stereotypes in childhood is tied to worse anxiety for men than women in adulthood.
http://www.latimes.com/local/la-me-one-way-gender-revolution-20131227,0,7169949.story#ixzz2qsuHx6K5
Society values masculinity far more than femininity. Equality doesn't exist as far as that's concerned. Im not saying it's the fault of women by any means. But women do play into it as much as men do. Mothers wont have much concern for their daughter playing with boys toys. But she'll want to bring her son to the shrink if he starts to show interest in girls toys.
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And their budding football careers (yes, this is AGAIN rape by student athletes!)
riderinthestorm
Jan 2014
#44
For me personally - I don't want support from those who put conditions around it. What, if I don't
seaglass
Jan 2014
#47
And jumping directly to "This is all about ME! Why are you bothering ME?" Amazing.
Squinch
Jan 2014
#145
Right you are. We are all "rad fems" for trying to post @ women's issues GD.
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#107
They know they'd get banned if they use "feminazi", though the tone is identical.
Starry Messenger
Jan 2014
#120
And "broadbrushing" is "DU woman suggesting that bad things sometimes happen to women."
Squinch
Jan 2014
#146
again with the "tone"?? we have to express our outrage, our horror, in soft, pleasing, soothing
niyad
Jan 2014
#62
found a great one at the thrift store a couple of weeks ago!! alas, already had a sold sign.
niyad
Jan 2014
#112
You think you're an ally? Then why is discussing the prevalence of gang rape
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#82
No, you attacked someone who was discussing the problem. As you can see, no one believes you ever
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#104
Oh dear, do you have ANYTHING to contribute at all here? If no, them go away as promised.
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#109
You said you wouldn't be an ally. So where does that leave you? Not belonging here.
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#111
and you lose a bit more credibility every time you do. we are so hurt you lied about ditching us..
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#116
NO. You accused a poster here of hyperbole when it came to gang rape. And threatened to withdraw
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#125
let's see--you have been registered here since 2011. you are posting in a thread on RAPE, and
niyad
Jan 2014
#121
In what context Charlie? would be a smarter answer, LOL. I'm sure you read "all the papers" too.
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#130
oh, my, we actually understand you very well indeed. this is not the first time we have seen this
niyad
Jan 2014
#122
he is here to "do battle" LOL… lost on the way to the neighborhood arcade? ran out of quarters?
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#129
great question- why does this poster find discussing rape to be- personally- their problem?
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#114
the Danish tourist was not murdered, and the connection between her story and this suicide is gang
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#140
It's super unfortunate here that when we discuss the cultural problems that cause
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#150
When it comes to politics, Democrats are better than Republicans, but not by that much.
Beacool
Jan 2014
#48
did you ever watch the pbs doc "makers: women who make american" 3 hours, well done.
niyad
Jan 2014
#132
I am old enough to remember that fight, and my naive belief that we could effect serious change.
niyad
Jan 2014
#127
I agree with you up to a point but I strongly believe that this issue of rape does NOT originate
Squinch
Jan 2014
#156
Who makes Hollywood movies? Who makes Disney movies? By and large, it isn't women.
Squinch
Jan 2014
#161
Seriously? You are letting Elizabeth Hasselback decide what you think about yourself?
Squinch
Jan 2014
#164
We are not going to get anywhere until you admit men are not the only part of the problem here...
davidn3600
Jan 2014
#167
Yes, hierarchical power structures are a fantastic way to ensure the system keeps going.
redqueen
Jan 2014
#76
periodically, time magazine runs an article (frequently headlined on the cover) with the breathless
niyad
Jan 2014
#137
Le Taz...its not...unprecidented...its not increasing...take any time earlier 30 40 50 60 years ago
Drew Richards
Jan 2014
#118
I was stunned in that last thread to learn that the rate of rape in the US is 17 times that of India
Squinch
Jan 2014
#144
We can't even get many progressives to agree that sexualization, objectification,
Zorra
Jan 2014
#124
Dehumanizing women comes with a price. When Hefner declared that "women are sex objects"
redqueen
Jan 2014
#29
I wonder how many girls participate out of fear that they may become the next victim
CrispyQ
Jan 2014
#66
I was going to say, if you think this will be considered a punishment for them, you need to spend...
Shandris
Jan 2014
#89
These boys had pictures of other girls without their clothes on, on their phones
riderinthestorm
Jan 2014
#45
I thought that thread ended up pretty unfairly categorizing a whole nation, too. nt.
polly7
Jan 2014
#115