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cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
33. You're funny...
Fri Jan 24, 2014, 03:20 PM
Jan 2014

Who said you had to become a cop in order to change the culture of it?

I have family members who are cops. They are as progressive as they come. They've seen horrible violence and have dealt with criminals that would rather kill them. They deal with the society when it's at it's worse. I don't care who you are, it changes you on a level that very few will understand. My cousin thought he'd see less of it when he got promoted. He went to homicide thinking he wouldn't see the other garbage. Instead, he had to investigate some very violent and tragic crimes. People have to understand that right or wrong the job will change you on the inside in ways I don't think most understands.

When you work in a job where many people either hate you or are afraid of you and you deal with society at it's worst, what kind of person do you think you are going to be on the other side of that?

Also, another cousin took his retirement early. His home life was a wreck because he didn't know how not to bring it home. He bought my Grandpa's business when he retired and has never been happier.

I have never seen a DUer talk about this aspect of being a cop.

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Those jobs require an ohheckyeah Jan 2014 #1
I see...that's why there are no police in socially progressive countries? brooklynite Jan 2014 #4
Everyone in foreign countries is not the same person. cthulu2016 Jan 2014 #7
In Norway, cops are more like social workers mainer Jan 2014 #16
I think it's more systemic. If Norway recruits cop-social workers, it's because they've structured El_Johns Jan 2014 #35
Yeah.... ohheckyeah Jan 2014 #8
My oldest son is a staunch progressive. He's also a criminal justice major who ... 11 Bravo Jan 2014 #26
Awesome! FrodosPet Jan 2014 #29
Good for him.... ohheckyeah Jan 2014 #45
This should go well alcibiades_mystery Jan 2014 #2
So you're going to become a cop then? villager Jan 2014 #3
My mom always wanted me to become a cop FrodosPet Jan 2014 #10
So you are part of the problem also. ret5hd Jan 2014 #20
I am trying to be part of the solution FrodosPet Jan 2014 #27
Why don't more pacifists join the army? cthulu2016 Jan 2014 #5
How many 55 yr old machinists are they hiring? ret5hd Jan 2014 #6
I'm stuck in the old school mentality FrodosPet Jan 2014 #19
What an utterly specious. sendero Jan 2014 #9
Because there is only one president FrodosPet Jan 2014 #15
Everyone can't become cops kcr Jan 2014 #44
It's easier for some to whine about the police... cynatnite Jan 2014 #11
So you're becoming a cop, too! villager Jan 2014 #21
You're funny... cynatnite Jan 2014 #33
When I was part of neighborhood watch, during my married years... villager Jan 2014 #36
I never said it did... cynatnite Jan 2014 #41
Still no excuse for being an asshole and harassing people! nt Logical Jan 2014 #40
Never said it did. cynatnite Jan 2014 #43
What are you doing? Whining? nt Logical Jan 2014 #38
why would we do that? Go for it if you want..... bowens43 Jan 2014 #12
Not all of us are comfortable shooting fifty holes in an immigrant Aristus Jan 2014 #13
Every organization has a culture that attracts or repels people La Lioness Priyanka Jan 2014 #14
I really believe the problem is more societal... Whiskeytide Jan 2014 #17
Ah, the old you can't complain if you're not fixing it argument. bemildred Jan 2014 #18
No plans to be a cop Beearewhyain Jan 2014 #22
it's easier to hate giant killer robots than to become one nt geek tragedy Jan 2014 #23
Yeah how stupid for someone to complain when cops beat the shit out of an innocent Rex Jan 2014 #24
Having known a wonderful small-town police chief mainer Jan 2014 #25
Even if you join, what are you going to do? DragonBorn Jan 2014 #28
And let's not forget that Serpico got shot. Savannahmann Jan 2014 #30
Nice expose' Boom Sound 416 Jan 2014 #31
Between the war on drugs and the war on minorities madville Jan 2014 #32
In New York, they refuse to hire you if you're too smart. KitSileya Jan 2014 #34
Why you ask? Savannahmann Jan 2014 #37
They don't hire people with superior intellect. lpbk2713 Jan 2014 #39
The main reason I'd never want to be a cop mokawanis Jan 2014 #42
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