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demwing

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72. Adding context does not make words meaningless

Wed Feb 5, 2014, 12:08 PM

Feb 2014

it clarifies meaning, and increases understanding.

What does she mean by "sent"? Was she given a specific address, or was she simply moved to go out and find a few fellow travelers, struggling on their paths?

If she meant the latter if she was encouraged by a power she described as God, then (again) I absolutely believe God sent her.

We also need to consider what she might have meant by "God."

The all powerful, all knowing, creator of everything? The collective consciousness if the Universe? Love?

If she believes that love, or the spirit of love, moved or encouraged her to help those women, then who would argue?

Trying to understand what a person means, rather than fixating on what thy said, never diminishes meaning. Never.

And while we're talking about love and tiramisu,let me just say that I do.

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