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Tree-Hugger

(3,379 posts)
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 09:54 AM Feb 2014

Being a poor woman [View all]

I have written about my family's struggle with poverty a few times here at DU. Things are so bad that I am thisclose to resorting to internet panhandling.

People in my life know I am poor. One thing that strikes me is the difference in suggestions for me and my husband.

My husband is always told to keep his chin up, keep looking for better employment, keep hoping, work hard.

The suggestions for me? Strip. Have you thought about porn? What about a webcam show where you show some skin.

Never once has anyone suggested that my husband sell his body in a sexual manner. Not once. I get those suggestions twice a week or more. I have been told by "friends" that I don't want to see my children out if poverty and I'm selfish because I will not strip or do porn.

That's fucked up.

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Being a poor woman [View all] Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 OP
That is outrageous! LiberalEsto Feb 2014 #1
I did. They are gone Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #3
Why would ann--- Feb 2014 #26
These are offline friends Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #27
I agree. Thats FUBAR. Scuba Feb 2014 #2
Thank you nt Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #4
I apologize to you on behalf of the people of the United States of America. raging moderate Feb 2014 #5
Thank you for that. :) nt Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #9
Seems like you need a better class of associates... Lost_Count Feb 2014 #6
They're gone Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #10
WTH. Triana Feb 2014 #7
Thank you :) nt Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #11
Message auto-removed Name removed Feb 2014 #8
You need different people in your life. PassingFair Feb 2014 #12
They are gone Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #15
Your husband should tell those assholes to STFU HangOnKids Feb 2014 #13
He would Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #14
Your OP makes it sound like these are FaceBook buddies HangOnKids Feb 2014 #16
Whete did I say that in my OP? Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #17
Ack! What horrible, unthinking things to say! ladyVet Feb 2014 #18
I talked to a friend about this Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #20
DU Rec Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #19
IMO Mr Dixon Feb 2014 #21
My husband works 3 slave wage jobs in retail Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #22
So Sorry Mr Dixon Feb 2014 #23
No where else to move at the moment Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #24
That's the best ideas they could come up with? Spirochete Feb 2014 #25
In their own way they are trying to help, I guess Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #28
You are right. Those are dangerous things to do. raging moderate Feb 2014 #29
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