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In reply to the discussion: No, Liberals Don't Control the Democratic Party [View all]Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)for years all we heard was 'don't let the perfect be the enemy of the good, marriage equality is impossible, for at least a generation, no President could support it and be elected again, change is always slow, we have to be realistic and understand that Civil Unions are the best we can get until enough of the older generation dies off.....baby steps, don't be a purist, give up on your rights now'.
Of course they were wrong.
2003 example is as good as a thousand others.
" I see no issue w/ gay marriage, but I'm willing to be pragmatic
Since legalizing gay marriage would only concern civil marriage, I, in principle, am not at all opposed. However, I also think that among the general public there is a major association between the term "marriage" and the sacred religious institution, even when discussing civil marriage.
For that reason, I'm willing to support civil unions intead of gay marriage, at least as an interim solution for the next few decades. Politically, I think what needs to be enacted is the best possible solution that can be passed. Gay marriage cannot -- at least not yet. Civil unions (which is civil marriage under a different name)."
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=104&topic_id=145943&mesg_id=146400
Civil Unions for the next few decades....to be pragmatic!!!!!!! Hilarious. And yet they continue to use this jargon. Dated, disproven and utterly nonsensical jargon.