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Jefferson23

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70. Woody Allen did not sue for custody of Dylan Farrow until after her accusations were made known
Sat Feb 8, 2014, 02:07 PM
Feb 2014

to him.

Feb 7, 2014



No. 1: The sexual-abuse allegations did not happen in the midst of a custody battle.

In his Daily Beast piece, Weide refers to “Mia [Farrow]’s accusation—used during their custody battle for their three shared children—that Woody molested their 7-year-old adopted daughter Dylan.” He also suggests it’s unlikely that Allen would have molested Dylan “in the middle of custody and support negotiations, during which Woody needed to be on his best behavior.” Many of Allen’s defenders have floated the possibility that Mia Farrow concocted the allegations to use as leverage in the custody battle; Steve Kroft suggests just this scenario in the introduction to a 1992 60 Minutes interview with Allen. In that segment, Allen tells Kroft that it would have been “illogical” to molest Dylan “at the height of a very bitter, acrimonious custody fight.”

The problem with this line of reasoning is that Dylan Farrow’s allegations did not emerge in the midst of a custody battle. According to Phoebe Hoban’s 1992 New York magazine story, as of early August 1992—eight months after Mia Farrow had discovered Allen’s sexual relationship with her daughter Soon-Yi Previn—Allen had been “prepared to sign a 30-page document that virtually precluded his seeing the children he doted on without a chaperone.” Then, on Aug. 4, 1992, Dylan told her mother that Woody Allen had sexually assaulted her in Mia’s Connecticut home. At that point, Mia and Dylan went to Dylan’s pediatrician, who reported the allegations to authorities. Allen did not sue for custody of Dylan and her two brothers, Moses and Ronan, until Aug. 13, 1992, a week after he was informed of Dylan’s accusations.

In a June 1993 decision, Acting Justice Elliot Wilk of the New York State Supreme Court found “no credible evidence to support Mr. Allen’s contention that Ms. Farrow coached Dylan or that Ms. Farrow acted upon a desire for revenge against him for seducing Soon-Yi. Mr. Allen’s resort to the stereotypical ‘woman scorned’ defense is an injudicious attempt to divert attention from his failure to act as a responsible parent and adult.”

No. 2: The Connecticut state’s attorney stated that he had probable cause to bring charges against Allen.

Weide writes that Allen “was never charged with a crime, since investigative authorities never found credible evidence to support Mia’s (and Dylan’s) claim.” In fact, the Litchfield, Conn., state’s attorney, Frank Maco, in consultation with Mia Farrow, decided in September 1993 not to press criminal charges, despite having “probable cause,” in the belief that a trial would further traumatize Dylan. At that point, Allen had already been denied not only custody but any visitation rights—supervised or unsupervised—with Dylan, per Wilk’s decision in June of that year. (As the New York Times pointed out at the time, “Mr. Maco's remarks about the case were criticized by some legal scholars, who said it was an unfair attempt to have it both ways by claiming victory without taking the case to trial.” Maco was later rebuked by a state Grievance Council for his actions, though it did not find that Maco had violated any provision of Connecticut’s code of conduct for lawyers.)

No. 3: Dylan Farrow’s testimony was not marred by “inconsistencies.”

“There were problems with inconsistencies” in Dylan’s narrative, Weide writes. On Aug. 4, when a physician asked Dylan where her father had touched her that day, she pointed to her shoulder; she explained to her mother later the same day that she was embarrassed to talk about her private parts. After that first doctor’s visit, however, her story remained consistent, detailed, and specific.

No. 4: The unsuspicious nanny was outnumbered.

Weide makes a lot out of a deposition by a nanny in Allen’s employ, Monica Thompson, who stated “that she was pressured by Farrow to support the molestation charges,” and that another nanny, Kristie Groteke, had told her that she “did not have Dylan out of her sight for longer than five minutes.” Weide does not mention that Groteke herself testified that she lost track of both Dylan and Allen for 15 to 20 minutes on Aug. 4. Weide does not mention the testimony of babysitter Alison Stickland, who, on Aug. 4, witnessed Allen “kneeling in front of Dylan with his head in her lap” (a detail recounted in Dylan’s open letter). Weide does not mention that Sophie Berge, a tutor, later noticed that Dylan was not wearing underwear.

No. 5: The head of the Yale team investigating the allegations never spoke to Dylan Farrow.

Weide quotes at length from a sworn deposition by John Leventhal, the pediatrician who led the Yale–New Haven Hospital Child Sexual Abuse Clinic’s investigation of the allegations. Leventhal’s deposition hypothesized either that “these were statements made by an emotionally disturbed child and then became fixed in her mind” or “that she was coached or influenced by her mother.” But Leventhal himself never interviewed Dylan Farrow, nor did he interview her mother or any of the child care workers present at Mia Farrow’s home on Aug. 4, 1992. Dylan was interviewed nine times over a six-month period by Julia Hamilton, who had a Ph.D. in social work, and Jennifer Sawyer, who had a master’s degree in social work. Neither Hamilton nor Sawyer would testify at trial, and Leventhal would only testify via deposition; as Weide points out, they also destroyed their notes on the investigation. (Diane Schetky, a professor of psychiatry and past editor of the Clinical Handbook of Child Psychiatry and the Law, itemized other irregularities in the Yale investigation in this 1997 Connecticut Magazine piece.)

In his 1993 state Supreme Court decision, Wilk found that testimony “proves that Mr. Allen's behavior toward Dylan was grossly inappropriate and that measures must be taken to protect her.” In May 1994, the Appellate Division of the state Supreme Court cited a “clear consensus” among psychiatric experts that Allen’s “interest in Dylan was abnormally intense.”

My colleague Dahlia Lithwick wisely cautions against trying this case again in the court of public opinion. But it’s also worth remembering that—no matter how Robert Weide wants to spin things—Woody Allen did not fare well at all when actual courts of law looked at the facts.


http://www.slate.com/articles/life/culturebox/2014/02/woody_allen_and_dylan_farrow_digging_deeper_into_misleading_coverage.html

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facts of the decision. liberals like facts. BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2014 #1
This is a fairly strongly worded opinion Gothmog Feb 2014 #2
his behavior grossly inappropriate and measure must be taken to protect her. seabeyond Feb 2014 #3
That is incorrect. I don't think YOU read it. Nine Feb 2014 #8
sounds to me like i am not wrong.... seabeyond Feb 2014 #10
Your own link states that Allen was allowed supervised visitation with Satchel. Nine Feb 2014 #13
I was referring to Dylan. Not the other two children. They are not the subject at hand seabeyond Feb 2014 #17
And I posted what the ruling said about Dylan. Nine Feb 2014 #22
"possible future contact between Mr. Allen and Dylan"... that would be a maybe. seabeyond Feb 2014 #24
but regardless nine, of trying to pick out shit to argue. do tell us how good a man this allen was seabeyond Feb 2014 #26
I doubt anyone said the family court "proved guilt" BainsBane Feb 2014 #12
"the verdict came in, just wasnt thru a trial" Nine Feb 2014 #14
Okay, but I think it's mistaken to take that literally BainsBane Feb 2014 #15
that would be the whole point of saying it did not go to trial, that it was the judge seabeyond Feb 2014 #18
given that he said it he would then be required to show proof. he didnt because it didnt exist. if roguevalley Feb 2014 #71
being denied even supervised visitation treestar Feb 2014 #65
kick gollygee Feb 2014 #4
Isn't it, though? It's also the only one that doesn't boil down to a statement of Squinch Feb 2014 #30
The link in the OP is well worth reading in its entirety. Z_I_Peevey Feb 2014 #5
Totally refutes the publicists account that has been regurgitated around here like gospel BainsBane Feb 2014 #6
"Ms. Farrow's chief shortcoming in regard to parenting" BainsBane Feb 2014 #7
People Magazine? As opposed to Vanity Fair? (nt) Nine Feb 2014 #23
Dylan's letter was in the New York Times. BainsBane Feb 2014 #25
and still you do not address the issue of GROSSLY inappropriate. a grown fuckin man seabeyond Feb 2014 #27
That's one person's opinion. Nine Feb 2014 #34
wow. just wow. at the expense of a child. truly, fuckin amazing seabeyond Feb 2014 #35
sorry, your view is no more valid than anyone else. kwassa Feb 2014 #38
The judge presents a "Finding of Fact" BainsBane Feb 2014 #44
The judge presents a finding of HIS facts. kwassa Feb 2014 #66
no.just no. roguevalley Feb 2014 #72
Now, that is a substantive response. kwassa Feb 2014 #77
That the team refused to testify means their finds are not evidence BainsBane Feb 2014 #79
What professional standards are you talking about? kwassa Feb 2014 #83
Did you read the ruling? It does not appear so BainsBane Feb 2014 #85
I think that both of them have dubious ethical standards. kwassa Feb 2014 #94
So I will summarize BainsBane Feb 2014 #95
"What she did to their wives was done to her by Woody Allen". Uh, no. R B Garr Feb 2014 #96
It's interesting BainsBane Feb 2014 #98
No, it's not believable at all. They seem to be very invested in their positions R B Garr Feb 2014 #100
+1 n/t Z_I_Peevey Feb 2014 #102
Thank you BainsBane Feb 2014 #103
That your reply came about 10 seconds after I posted shows me you didn't even read past the title. Nine Feb 2014 #39
Lies harm children too. RichGirl Feb 2014 #64
Your rapidly changing story BainsBane Feb 2014 #41
"Something you previously insisted was not so" Nine Feb 2014 #61
The Yale New Haven team REFUSED to testify BainsBane Feb 2014 #43
You seem determined chervilant Feb 2014 #53
Kick redqueen Feb 2014 #9
k&r Starry Messenger Feb 2014 #11
K & R thucythucy Feb 2014 #16
Kick Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #19
Thank you for posting this LiberalEsto Feb 2014 #20
You and me both - SO much worse than I had even thought TorchTheWitch Feb 2014 #47
Money, fame, power LiberalEsto Feb 2014 #68
That is pretty damning. nt el_bryanto Feb 2014 #21
I'm glad he did not get custody. bravenak Feb 2014 #28
absolutely. or visitation. measures to protect dylan. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #29
It sounds like he was very inappropriate. bravenak Feb 2014 #31
that was even "a possibility". i do not know if he eventually got them or not. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #32
The court document gives the events of the day Dylan says she was abused BainsBane Feb 2014 #33
i didnt know there was more, than what was on the link. jumping back in seabeyond Feb 2014 #36
it is at the link TorchTheWitch Feb 2014 #48
Me too. Why was she able to keep a license? BainsBane Feb 2014 #51
and why did they destroy their notes??? TorchTheWitch Feb 2014 #59
I want to know this, too! cinnabonbon Feb 2014 #67
the lead a man, two women therapist. seabeyond Feb 2014 #69
You're "still reading the rest"?! Nine Feb 2014 #37
I'm also writing a report BainsBane Feb 2014 #40
after reading it all, i conclude with. even stuebenville rape on video had way too many people seabeyond Feb 2014 #42
and even when they finally admit to what happened they blame the victim JI7 Feb 2014 #45
Now it's "the court ruling is just an opinion" BainsBane Feb 2014 #46
+1 -- Thank you chervilant Feb 2014 #56
the extent to justify grossly inappropriate behavior while measure must be taken to protect a dylan seabeyond Feb 2014 #87
It is harsh laundry_queen Feb 2014 #55
+ a gazillion! chervilant Feb 2014 #57
Clearly the judge believed Allen a danger to Dylan BainsBane Feb 2014 #99
thanks rv.. from your link.. Cha Feb 2014 #49
If you read thee whole ruling BainsBane Feb 2014 #50
Thanks BB.. I have read most of those heartbreaking details in Cha Feb 2014 #52
The court record actually confirms Allen's account that he didn't act as a father BainsBane Feb 2014 #54
Right.. just because you're Cha Feb 2014 #58
he used an assumed name to call her and she had to leave a camp because of it roguevalley Feb 2014 #73
Yes BainsBane Feb 2014 #86
Oh dear, how to explain this: Bonobo Feb 2014 #60
nice try roguevalley Feb 2014 #75
Very enlightening. Thanks for posting this, roguevalley. nt DLevine Feb 2014 #62
you are welcome roguevalley Feb 2014 #76
What I don't understand is cinnabonbon Feb 2014 #63
To get back at Mia BainsBane Feb 2014 #88
I am hoping that is not the case cinnabonbon Feb 2014 #89
kinda what the judge called him. dylan made the accusation. the doctor called woody and seabeyond Feb 2014 #90
I suspect the judge made the right decision here cinnabonbon Feb 2014 #92
Woody Allen did not sue for custody of Dylan Farrow until after her accusations were made known Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #70
in your face obvious good point. no desire for custody until AFTER the molestation accusation seabeyond Feb 2014 #80
You're very welcome. There have been a few well sourced OP's but Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #81
K&R me b zola Feb 2014 #74
Sadly it wasn't dipsydoodle Feb 2014 #78
Unfortunately there are WAY TOO MANY people here engaging in faux-news type spin and mendacity. redqueen Feb 2014 #91
yes. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #93
Suddenly facts no longer matter BainsBane Feb 2014 #97
I just don't get it. I just. don't. get it. nomorenomore08 Feb 2014 #104
Read the actual judge's finding BainsBane Feb 2014 #105
The new game is the old game BainsBane Feb 2014 #82
Full legal finding of fact BainsBane Feb 2014 #84
... ScreamingMeemie Feb 2014 #101
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