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marlakay

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10. I talked my husband into retiring early
Tue Mar 20, 2012, 07:34 PM
Mar 2012

Because he was so angry from commuting and parts of his job. That was 2005. I thought move from the city to the mountains with nice house, peace and quiet, should be wonderful....

If I had known about the economy, how part time jobs would be hard to find or keep, if I knew that my husband who had all these ideas of hobbies would just sit doing nothing every day....I would have kept working.

I worked year round first 4 years we were here and now I have a seasonal job working in the office of our summer and winter play productions. So I work 5 months a year, I like it. I go to the gym, I belong to a bookclub and a hiking club, and do some volunteer work.

My husband does yard work in the summer for 3 months and if I kick his buns will get the snow off the driveway.

I finally got him to see a counselor for depression starting last month. I am super hoping she tells him to get a life! I keep telling him to do a hobby any hobby.

That beyond money is why you should stay working unless you have a full life outside work.

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Brainwashed? liberal N proud Mar 2012 #1
Yes, it's "brainwashing" to want to relax. SHAME on you and whip me up some TPS reports!! HughBeaumont Mar 2012 #3
52 is the year it all changes... Bennyboy Mar 2012 #7
Thanks for the reassurance liberal N proud Mar 2012 #8
Of course at that age it is REAL EASY to get another job.... Bennyboy Mar 2012 #16
I was 70 when I was forced into retirement in 2010. RebelOne Mar 2012 #9
Doubtless coming from the same place as all the "Home ownership is overrated" propaganda. DirkGently Mar 2012 #2
Wall street sez: Turbineguy Mar 2012 #4
I read this earlier today. Ridiculous, and everybody commenting there thinks so. Faygo Kid Mar 2012 #5
I'm not buying this part - badhair77 Mar 2012 #13
Corporate shills with sit-on-your-ass all days jobs should not get to retire. alarimer Mar 2012 #6
I talked my husband into retiring early marlakay Mar 2012 #10
Getting a full life outside of work is essential to sanity for everyone n/t eridani Mar 2012 #24
Gosh, that's so irritating I wish I hadn't read it Yo_Mama Mar 2012 #11
Call me brainwashed but I retired two years ago and haven't regretted one doc03 Mar 2012 #12
i agree in general qazplm Mar 2012 #14
Agree. Agree. Agree. bmbmd Mar 2012 #15
It's not like all of us will have the option of continued employment varelse Mar 2012 #17
Agree. Walmart's not the "encore" career I'm looking for. Gidney N Cloyd Mar 2012 #19
I used to visit my grandfather who sat in front of the TV treestar Mar 2012 #18
Sounds like a Cambodian reeducation class Jack Sprat Mar 2012 #20
The last place I worked had very large older work force fluchen Mar 2012 #21
5 biggest regrets of the dying GeorgeGist Mar 2012 #22
The article makes a lot of sense for certain people... badtoworse Mar 2012 #23
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