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tblue37

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231. I had already said thanks to the unknown person or person who had given me two unexpected hearts
Thu Feb 13, 2014, 12:19 PM
Feb 2014

when some nice person, perhaps the same one or ones, perhaps (probably?) a different one, sneaked up and gave me the third one.

So now I want to say thanks again to whoever** it was who gave me my third heart.

**As a "gift" to my fellow DUers, I am going to slip on my grammar guru hat and answer a question that probably troubles many of you from time to time.

A clause is a "stronger" grammatical structure than a phrase. Therefore, when a clause and a phrase compete to determine the case of a pronoun, the clause wins. That is why "whoever" is in the nominative (subject) case in ". . . to whoever gave me the third one" in my sentence above. The clause wants a subject ("whoever gave&quot , while the prepositional phrase wants an object.

In a wordier and more roundabout version of the sentence, the nominative case would still be called for:


. . . to whoever it was who gave . . .

That is because the "whoever" in that version is acting as the subject complement of the subject ("it was whoever&quot , and subject complement pronouns are also in the nominative case.

Not trying to be a grammar Nazi here, but I know that many people do worry about such things but don't know where to go for quick, easy to understand answers.

People are often insecure about whether their grammar is correct, because there really are a lot of nasty grammar Nazis out there, and they jump at the chance to publicly hector others. If you ever need a grammar or usage question answered, my Grammar and Usage for the Non-Expert site consists of targeted articles. I don't try to cover every aspect of grammar and usage in my articles--just the ones that give a lot of people, including otherwise good writers, trouble:

http://www.grammartips.homestead.com/articleindex.html

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The WhiteSmoke ad is the problematic one. Just do not click on it and you will be fine.

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**** Heart Appreciation**** [View all] seabeyond Feb 2014 OP
Thanks to the person who gave me a heart. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #1
thank youalso, to whoever uppityperson Feb 2014 #2
Thanks to all who gave me these four hearts. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #3
Seems likes it just keeps going up! Agschmid Feb 2014 #16
lol yep. I am so grateful. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #17
Where is William? Agschmid Feb 2014 #19
you are sweet! hrmjustin Feb 2014 #21
William requested that anyone wishing to donate hearts to him, amuse bouche Feb 2014 #33
Thanks! Agschmid Feb 2014 #36
You're welcome amuse bouche Feb 2014 #39
And, you get one for helping William! Sissyk Feb 2014 #41
Thanks amuse bouche Feb 2014 #46
You do enough good things to deserve the love, hrmjustin :) n/t Aerows Feb 2014 #60
Thanks my friend! hrmjustin Feb 2014 #61
You are one of the best, hrmjustin Aerows Feb 2014 #64
As are you Aerows! hrmjustin Feb 2014 #67
Doing much better Aerows Feb 2014 #69
No worries! hrmjustin Feb 2014 #70
Cute Graphic. A Heart For You. TheOther95Percent Feb 2014 #4
ah... and i wait until the middle of the week.... to play. seabeyond Feb 2014 #5
Yep. Adorable graphic. BlueCaliDem Feb 2014 #29
and i love yours... lol, that is one of the reasons the seasons, holidays are so much seabeyond Feb 2014 #50
Nice 3-D image! BlueCaliDem Feb 2014 #137
thanks you very much for the hearts. cali Feb 2014 #6
and another thank you..... and another, seabeyond Feb 2014 #7
Will wonders never cease! HappyMe Feb 2014 #8
Thank you! Le Taz Hot Feb 2014 #9
let me add a thank you as well nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #10
right on, seabeyond! and thanks to whoever gave me mine Pretzel_Warrior Feb 2014 #11
and ya... seabeyond Feb 2014 #121
first time I ventured over to that forum Pretzel_Warrior Feb 2014 #122
thinking thinking thinking.... seabeyond Feb 2014 #126
I'll PM you. Pretzel_Warrior Feb 2014 #128
Thanks from me, as well! cyberswede Feb 2014 #12
Thank you to the ten you that sent me hearts. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #13
~heart week puts a smile in our hearts.. sheshe2 Feb 2014 #14
ohhhh, i love that one. seabeyond Feb 2014 #15
I know what you mean! sheshe2 Feb 2014 #76
Yes, thanks everyone! Sissyk Feb 2014 #18
Thank you!!! Cali_Democrat Feb 2014 #20
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Here is one for you! Agschmid Feb 2014 #25
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Nope you don't. Agschmid Feb 2014 #28
unfortunately I am not from Vermont hfojvt Feb 2014 #37
hugzzzz, so hear you seabeyond Feb 2014 #56
Thanks. ProSense Feb 2014 #24
ProSense - always my favorite! BlueCaliDem Feb 2014 #40
That's sweet. Thank you. n/t ProSense Feb 2014 #42
Yeah well~ sheshe2 Feb 2014 #75
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You looked like you needed another :) Aerows Feb 2014 #31
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cause you are just that kind of woman. and to you... seabeyond Feb 2014 #58
Thank you Sea Aerows Feb 2014 #59
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Many thanks to the person who hearted me, too! frazzled Feb 2014 #38
All i got was a rock…. dorkzilla Feb 2014 #43
Thanks for the heart! City Lights Feb 2014 #44
I truly cherish mine. LiberalAndProud Feb 2014 #45
Absolutely. Thanks to you poor deluded souls.:) n/t malthaussen Feb 2014 #47
Thank you to the person who gave me a heart warrior1 Feb 2014 #48
Good thread! Thanks indeed! calimary Feb 2014 #49
I got a heart!! I feel tha love!! bravenak Feb 2014 #51
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Kudos to TheOther95Percent for giving out a bunch. lpbk2713 Feb 2014 #53
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Have fun and hug a friend. i LUV seabeyond Feb 2014 #68
Thanks anonymous person for my heart! Fun giving them out too :-) n/t seaglass Feb 2014 #71
Thank you for the heart liberal N proud Feb 2014 #72
Thanks to the twelve of you sweethearts that did this. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #73
Thanks to any of the dumbasses that stroked my ego today taterguy Feb 2014 #74
Bahaha.... giftedgirl77 Feb 2014 #78
Thank you for the hearts! babydollhead Feb 2014 #77
Thank you for starting this thread!! Rex Feb 2014 #79
Thank you -- I'm really touched Hekate Feb 2014 #80
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I'm still waiting to get one... samplegirl Feb 2014 #82
Not anymore. Agschmid Feb 2014 #84
YEA. everyone... seabeyond Feb 2014 #95
kicking my thread, to say .... thank you seabeyond Feb 2014 #83
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Thank you to whomever gave me the heart.... giftedgirl77 Feb 2014 #87
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Thank you... TeeYiYi Feb 2014 #91
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you too.... seabeyond Feb 2014 #124
Color me blushing! madamesilverspurs Feb 2014 #102
Fess up! Th1onein Feb 2014 #103
Thank you Evergreen Emerald Feb 2014 #104
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Thank you for the heart!! R B Garr Feb 2014 #106
surely..... seabeyond Feb 2014 #109
Thank you, secret admirer! Brigid Feb 2014 #107
you're welcome.... seabeyond Feb 2014 #113
! Brigid Feb 2014 #115
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I can't even imagine who would give me a heart ..... oldhippie Feb 2014 #112
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Thank you kind people who gave me hearts. redwitch Feb 2014 #114
I'm going to jump on this thread to say THANK YOU for my heart! MH1 Feb 2014 #116
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Thank You Anonymous Heart Givers!! adirondacker Feb 2014 #120
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To the wonderful, wonderful people who gave me hearts! MannyGoldstein Feb 2014 #129
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I recognize "howdy"! Cha Feb 2014 #138
i heart it, also. seabeyond Feb 2014 #139
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Thanks to all three of my wonderful Valentines. TheMathieu Feb 2014 #135
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It's been a rough day, JTFrog Feb 2014 #202
i saw. and a fav picture. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #214
Thank you for the heart, dear anonymous person! nt historylovr Feb 2014 #151
Thank you for brightening my day! eShirl Feb 2014 #152
Adding my thanks B2G Feb 2014 #153
and now a 2nd heart dembotoz Feb 2014 #155
a pleasant surprise, thank you! Scout Feb 2014 #156
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Thanks to my anonymous donor! eissa Feb 2014 #160
Many thanks to the person who donated my heart Cairycat Feb 2014 #161
And another thank you for my alsame Feb 2014 #162
Thank you for my hearts! senseandsensibility Feb 2014 #163
This crabby opinionated old lady says thank YOU for the heart.. fadedrose Feb 2014 #164
Thanks for my hearts! hamsterjill Feb 2014 #165
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Thank you secret donor(s). MerryBlooms Feb 2014 #175
Thank You…that Heart is amazing to me. Tikki Feb 2014 #176
Thank you again to the sweet people who sent me a star. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #177
Thanks for mine get the red out Feb 2014 #178
Thanks to: You know who you are, wish I did!!! nt stillwaiting Feb 2014 #179
I am humbled that a gracious soul gave me a heart! cry baby Feb 2014 #180
Thanks again for the heart donation today!! R B Garr Feb 2014 #182
Thank you to my two valentines, secret givers! Starry Messenger Feb 2014 #183
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ha haha haha, i LUV you.... seabeyond Feb 2014 #185
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our bad selves.... seabeyond Feb 2014 #191
A second heart for moi! City Lights Feb 2014 #187
Thanks for my new heart, anonymous donor ! steve2470 Feb 2014 #188
i am throwing out another heartfelt thank you.... for the hearts. you warm my..... seabeyond Feb 2014 #189
I would like to thank those who have given me hearts too. JRLeft Feb 2014 #190
To whom it may concern... marions ghost Feb 2014 #192
Thank you so much. Egalitarian Thug Feb 2014 #193
Thank You For The Hearts Guys !!! WillyT Feb 2014 #194
you are welcome, willyt seabeyond Feb 2014 #196
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #198
Thank you! highplainsdem Feb 2014 #195
Thank you to whomever gave me a heart! Rhythm Feb 2014 #197
I don't deserve em...but I got em.....AND A GREAT THANK YOU angstlessk Feb 2014 #199
Thank you! n/t lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #200
Im new here and someone actually gave me a heart. frwrfpos Feb 2014 #201
I love this time of year on DU Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #203
Yes, thanks for mine, wholly undeserved! And, what a great way to support DU! Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #204
What a delight this has been today. 3catwoman3 Feb 2014 #205
I also want to thank those who gave me hearts. I love and appreciate every one. Auntie Bush Feb 2014 #206
Thank you so much! onestepforward Feb 2014 #207
And I greatly appreciate the three hearts I have been given! kentauros Feb 2014 #208
Thank You DU secret admirers :) n/t Tx4obama Feb 2014 #209
Thank you for the heart! proverbialwisdom Feb 2014 #210
aw shucks flamingdem Feb 2014 #211
Thank you for the Hearts!! KT2000 Feb 2014 #212
Thanks for my heart BuelahWitch Feb 2014 #213
i need to say another thank you.... for those that have given me hearts. i cannot seabeyond Feb 2014 #215
Great pic and heartwarming thread. K&R. proverbialwisdom Feb 2014 #217
Thank You SO much for the hearts. Raffi Ella Feb 2014 #218
Thanks a lot! butterfly77 Feb 2014 #219
Heartfelt thanks to my heart donor! Dark n Stormy Knight Feb 2014 #220
Kick! Solly Mack Feb 2014 #221
I'd like to thank whomever Blue_Tires Feb 2014 #223
Humbled and grateful Thank You notemason Feb 2014 #224
Thanks! raouldukelives Feb 2014 #225
Yay! Thank you to whoever gave me my heart! n/t BeeBee Feb 2014 #226
Thank you to my secret admirers who gave me hearts ellie Feb 2014 #227
Yes, thank you for the hearts!! Little time to post this week but... polichick Feb 2014 #228
yes. it does. doesnt it. regressing to a little childhood. and... seabeyond Feb 2014 #229
I just wanted to say thank-you to the person who gave me the V-day heart! nc4bo Feb 2014 #230
I had already said thanks to the unknown person or person who had given me two unexpected hearts tblue37 Feb 2014 #231
Thank you to whoever gave me a heart independentpiney Feb 2014 #232
Thank you again everybody! Cali_Democrat Feb 2014 #233
u r very popular CD! flamingdem Feb 2014 #245
Happy v day to you as well! Cali_Democrat Feb 2014 #246
My heartfelt thanks also! n/t deek Feb 2014 #234
Thank you all, and I am generously accepting more at this address: Kurovski Feb 2014 #235
Great thread, ya got to love DU. Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #236
too true, huh... seabeyond Feb 2014 #239
Perfect! Thank you seabeyond :) Jefferson23 Feb 2014 #240
It's made me smile to see some of the people I've given hearts to expressing their thanks. herding cats Feb 2014 #237
Warm wishes to whomever gave me a heart me b zola Feb 2014 #238
I am proud to be one of your heart contributors, seabeyond. CTyankee Feb 2014 #241
oh my bee u tee full CT.... seabeyond Feb 2014 #243
I am at peace with this...thank goddess... CTyankee Feb 2014 #248
A heartfelt thanks to my secret admirers! Retrograde Feb 2014 #242
happy valentines day! flamingdem Feb 2014 #244
Thank you! kcr Feb 2014 #247
Thanks for my second heart, somebody!! Made my day! TwilightGardener Feb 2014 #249
Thank you! redwitch Feb 2014 #251
Please let me add my thanks here also... babylonsister Feb 2014 #252
and another thank you to those giving me hearts. it was the empathy to the east coast thread seabeyond Feb 2014 #253
Thank you secret admirer. Loki Feb 2014 #254
~ antiquie Feb 2014 #255
Yes, Thank You! LWolf Feb 2014 #256
Thank you for my second heart ChazII Feb 2014 #257
Great idea, seabeyond! bluedigger Feb 2014 #258
bluedigger.... seabeyond Feb 2014 #260
Another thank you!! Tree-Hugger Feb 2014 #259
Thanks, even though I keep worrying I got a post hidden when I get the message! joshcryer Feb 2014 #261
Thank you for my heart! crazylikafox Feb 2014 #262
do we lose our hearts tomorrow? it is always fun when we start sharng hearts, seabeyond Feb 2014 #263
From my heart to yours', UtahLib Feb 2014 #264
Well deserved and so many more, seabeyond Feb 2014 #265
If I had a hundred hearts I'd give you fifty seabeyond ucrdem Feb 2014 #266
too much of a blast,how fun is this. ahhhhh, seabeyond Feb 2014 #269
my lips are sealed lol ucrdem Feb 2014 #270
Wow, a third heart! City Lights Feb 2014 #267
On the chance that the givers of my hearts should read this, LiberalAndProud Feb 2014 #268
kicking to increase the chance, they will see. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #272
Someone sweet gave me a heart. Chellee Feb 2014 #271
ahhhhhh, i have an evening of angry at purposeful sexism allowed and someone gave me another heart seabeyond Feb 2014 #273
Thank you! Bobbie Jo Feb 2014 #274
ya ya ya . i got another heart. whomever sent it... thanks. and in a giggle cause... seabeyond Feb 2014 #275
and another thank you..... seabeyond Feb 2014 #276
To all who gave me the hearts, in a very hard week, they really gave me a lift. Squinch Feb 2014 #277
true that. so true. yes. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #279
Thanks!!! Iggo Feb 2014 #278
I thought I had posted in this thread... ohheckyeah Feb 2014 #280
My Thank You too Omaha Steve Feb 2014 #281
Thanks. JVS Feb 2014 #282
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