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41. Thank you for this.

Fri Feb 14, 2014, 02:20 PM

Feb 2014

She has a husband and he too is now depressed and takes medication for it. They look after each other for the most part. I have to interact with her at this point to finalize estate issues for my other sister. If I didn't have business with her I would let her take a holiday for as long as she liked. Instead of working together she has assumed prize fighter stance and engaged in a fight at every corner. I need to settle down and realize that things will take time and that is all there is to it. Let her fight her shadow until she tires.

Thank you so much for adding to this conversation. It was very helpful! Peace, Km

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Any suggestion on dealing with a bi polar sibling? [View all] peace13 Feb 2014 OP

It's sad but unless you can catch Sue in a more lucid and less belligerent moment Warpy Feb 2014 #1

Thanks Warpy. peace13 Feb 2014 #2

Please be careful with the word "crazy." chervilant Feb 2014 #6

Oh, please. Warpy Feb 2014 #40

Wow. chervilant Feb 2014 #45

I have a bipolar wife Victor_c3 Feb 2014 #3

Thank you so much for this. peace13 Feb 2014 #7

Firstly, here's hoping things work out well for you and yours. Secondly .... Scuba Feb 2014 #18

Thanks for the thought and the concern Victor_c3 Feb 2014 #31

Victor, they know. Sweet Freedom Feb 2014 #37

I am so sorry Sweet Freedom Feb 2014 #29

You know what, I think I will talk to a therapist about my kids Victor_c3 Feb 2014 #33

Good for you! Sweet Freedom Feb 2014 #36

good to hear you are taking that step. you will be setting a great example by coping with the issue bettyellen Feb 2014 #42

I think you also should be scared of what living in that kind of situation will do to your kids. nt raccoon Feb 2014 #52

wow victor. PowerToThePeople Feb 2014 #35

She needs a complete work up gwheezie Feb 2014 #4

excellent post steve2470 Feb 2014 #8

Thank you Steve. peace13 Feb 2014 #16

Thanks for this peace13 Feb 2014 #10

My sister was diagnosed bipolar more than 10 years ago. chervilant Feb 2014 #5

Thanks for the information. peace13 Feb 2014 #11

I had to do inpatient treatment before I could see that I really had a problem. bravenak Feb 2014 #9

Thank you for the advice. peace13 Feb 2014 #13

Good luck. bravenak Feb 2014 #14

5th Rec for a little more visibility Hekate Feb 2014 #12

Thank you so much! peace13 Feb 2014 #15

Since Sue is dealing with it herself with the help of qualified medical facility Demeter Feb 2014 #17

Neither did I until she told me. peace13 Feb 2014 #21

You and the others here are describing... Phentex Feb 2014 #19

Thank you for the kind words. peace13 Feb 2014 #20

I hope she pursues treatment. I have a son who is 36 who has been bi-polar his whole life. OregonBlue Feb 2014 #23

Thank you for this. peace13 Feb 2014 #24

Thank you so much for the valentines! peace13 Feb 2014 #22

Much of what you are telling us sounds very like my brother who was diagnosed years ago. All I can jwirr Feb 2014 #25

Thank you for this. peace13 Feb 2014 #41

Anti-depressants can make bi-polar symptoms worse. hunter Feb 2014 #26

That water treading visualization is wonderful. Beautiful!! peace13 Feb 2014 #39

As someone else implied... Xolodno Feb 2014 #27

Her blood pressure has been an issue in the recent past. peace13 Feb 2014 #32

my recommendation is to take care of yourself first. unblock Feb 2014 #28

This. missingthebigdog Feb 2014 #30

Thanks for this! peace13 Feb 2014 #34

Thank you for this. peace13 Feb 2014 #38

Cart before horse - TBF Feb 2014 #43

Thanks! peace13 Feb 2014 #44

One can detect bipolar disorder or depression from a CT scan? lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #46

This was a preliminary look at a test scan. The doc thought that what he was looking at was.... peace13 Feb 2014 #47

I wish I could help more, but my local chapter of NAMI is a good resource. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #48

I was just going to suggest NAMI too LiberalEsto Feb 2014 #49

Thank you for this! N/t peace13 Feb 2014 #50

My Ex Wife was Bi-polar Notafraidtoo Feb 2014 #51

Thank you so much for taking the time and energy to post this! peace13 Feb 2014 #53