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In reply to the discussion: Hey women [View all]LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)not that it would matter at all to me if you did. Likewise, no one is saying you are required to form a peaceful matriarchal community and have wild orgasmic ape sex with everyone in it, the way bonobos do.
Bonobo (the DUer, not the ape) was nice enough to finally point the way to what you're talking about, although still no links so I had to go look it up. What he was saying was that primates are hardwired to respond to visual mating cues (true) humans are primates (true) and humans are hardwired to find visual cues in other humans sexually attractive (also true). There was a side issue brought up in the thread to the effect that mass media manipulates and exaggerates the characteristics that humans find attractive (true to some degree) but that's a different if valid discussion. I'm not surprised that you didn't want to link.
If you want to try to claim that you have never admired a male behind (or other body part) without first stopping to learn of his hopes, dreams and names of his childhood pets, I'mma laugh at you. Male humans are no different than you are. They're apes, just like you, just like me.