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In reply to the discussion: Hey women [View all]Deep13
(39,157 posts)...to justify our own conduct. In other animals there may or may not be dominance by one sex over the other, but for us, that is an aberration, which is why people, especially women, tend to object to it so strongly. Frankly, our species would not have survived if women had been relegated to passive participants.
I think it is a mistake to think of apes as a more primitive, less developed version of humans. Both modern apes and humans are the results of billions of years of evolution. Since we are so closely related, humans and say chimps or bonobos are very similar in structure and behavior, but that does not make their behavior our behavior. So even if bonobos like looking at each other's asses, it does not follow that humans need to act the same way. Just as we must not read modern values backward in time to earlier civilizations, we must also not read our commercial culture into animal behavior. I do think human behavior can be explained by primate instinct, but that is not the same as saying that men should see women as existing for their entertainment.
Anyway, by post simply pointed out that if one part of human behavior is natural, then humans objecting to that behavior is also natural. If me staring at your chest is natural, then you telling me to knock it off is as well.