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In reply to the discussion: Hey women [View all]The Straight Story
(48,121 posts)I thought you didn't want people to get over it.
Every time I mention it I am helping bring awareness to the cause. Men are bad, and when they hold open doors they are really bad and you should avoid men who do evil crap like that.
Hell, it taught me to be suspicious of others and their motivations as well. Now I know everything men do has evil intentions or shows they are unable to think for themselves and are a product of the patriarchy.
I have personally went out of my way not to help people now (well, only women of course) because I never realized that they might go home upset and freak out over me doing so. They cannot know if I balanced it out before by helping others, so all they are left with is the thought that I helped them because I want to have sex with them or think they are weak.
Now I am actually helping women by treating them different than I do others.
Oh - and it never was about doors any more than me complaining about states banning smoking in bars is about smoking. But that goes right over the heads of some.