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Showing Original Post only (View all)Amazing Dear Abby tells a homophobic couple pretty much they deserve what they got..... [View all]
I saw this coming. Dear Abby has always been supportive of LGBT causes, which clearly this conservative couple was not aware of when they wrote a letter to Dear Abby complaining that their new neighbors are ignoring them because they didn't include 2 gay couples at their house party. To get a better idea just read the column:
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/2014/2/19
My husband and I relocated to Florida a little over a year ago and were quickly welcomed into our new neighbors' social whirl. Two couples in the neighborhood are gay -- one male, one female. While they are nice enough, my husband and I did not include them when it was our turn to host because we do not approve of their lifestyle choices. Since then, we have been excluded from neighborhood gatherings, and someone even suggested that we are bigots!
Abby, we moved here from a conservative community where people were pretty much the same. If people were "different," they apparently kept it to themselves. While I understand the phrase "when in Rome," I don't feel we should have to compromise our values just to win the approval of our neighbors. But really, who is the true bigot here? Would you like to weigh in? -- UNHAPPY IN TAMPA
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My husband and I relocated to Florida a little over a year ago and were quickly welcomed into our new neighbors' social whirl. Two couples in the neighborhood are gay -- one male, one female. While they are nice enough, my husband and I did not include them when it was our turn to host because we do not approve of their lifestyle choices. Since then, we have been excluded from neighborhood gatherings, and someone even suggested that we are bigots!
Abby, we moved here from a conservative community where people were pretty much the same. If people were "different," they apparently kept it to themselves. While I understand the phrase "when in Rome," I don't feel we should have to compromise our values just to win the approval of our neighbors. But really, who is the true bigot here? Would you like to weigh in? -- UNHAPPY IN TAMPA
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Amazing Dear Abby tells a homophobic couple pretty much they deserve what they got..... [View all]
LynneSin
Feb 2014
OP
Has anyone else noticed that many of the nuts, their problems, and general problems seem
monmouth3
Feb 2014
#2
Don't we eventually want a country where we don't have to define pro-gay and anti-gay neighborhoods
LynneSin
Feb 2014
#13
Getting past the HateFlorida Syndrome, Tampa is a big reason the state is turning blue.
Eleanors38
Feb 2014
#19
Here's the reply - I felt compelled to share it, as it was too great to miss!
bullwinkle428
Feb 2014
#9
What's worse - they would think to call the neighbors 'bigots' because they were excluded
LynneSin
Feb 2014
#23