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libodem

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41. Why can't we all just get along?

Thu Feb 20, 2014, 12:33 PM

Feb 2014

I don't have the answers but it doesn't stop me from wondering about it and trying to analyze the hell out of it.

Maybe because I've never been welcomed.inside the special circle of all 4 of the feminist groups, and especially the most spectacular and vociferous one, that it seems very divisive. From the start they have known who is one of them and who is not. If you are on the outside looking in, it feels very much like the mean girls in Junior High. I can see why belonging and associating are important because no one wants to be on the receiving end of the treatment.
So it is not just men but certain other women that are the enemies. It is hurtful and it feels unfair.

I miss Summer Hathaway. She was an intelligent voice I don't hear anymore.

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I don't understand the gender wars but divide and rule usually works [View all] malaise Feb 2014 OP

Seems to working quite well. hobbit709 Feb 2014 #1

Unless it's the opposite team you're doing it to. I don't think for one second the people bringing okaawhatever Feb 2014 #64

seems pretty simple, stop doing stuff that creeps women out. Warren Stupidity Feb 2014 #2

It was obviously flame bait justiceischeap Feb 2014 #8

Yep that is how it works. zeemike Feb 2014 #19

Exactly right. Old and In the Way Feb 2014 #60

HoF is not the equivalent of HoMRA. cyberswede Feb 2014 #61

This message was self-deleted by its author CFLDem Feb 2014 #67

I am a curious about your statement. Vinnie From Indy Feb 2014 #11

That's what I always wonder pipi_k Feb 2014 #30

I like your post n/t Feral Child Feb 2014 #38

I agree with you there. notadmblnd Feb 2014 #62

"Creeps women out" may not be the best choice of words. "Undermines and excludes" might be better. pnwmom Feb 2014 #40

Some women will be creeped out .... oldhippie Feb 2014 #12

But only some women are creeped out. So should we white knight them and treat The Straight Story Feb 2014 #13

Do you have the same attitude about racist crap and homophobic crap? Warren Stupidity Feb 2014 #22

Do you remember the big superbowl ad dustup here on DU years ago The Straight Story Feb 2014 #28

Under rocks and around every corner... pipi_k Feb 2014 #35

It isn't benevolent sexism to point out that T & A photos don't belong pnwmom Feb 2014 #42

If it was just that one thread, sure The Straight Story Feb 2014 #50

So whats the motivation for this? Katashi_itto Feb 2014 #15

It's in the lounge, not G.D. That's where the SI cover should have been posted. n/t pnwmom Feb 2014 #44

Sometimes people just like to post random shit... snooper2 Feb 2014 #26

And sometimes people deliberately post sexist crap hoping to make DU suck. Warren Stupidity Feb 2014 #37

Note who posted it Katashi_itto Feb 2014 #47

+1 Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #53

What A Mess... KharmaTrain Feb 2014 #3

It has become pathetic. Katashi_itto Feb 2014 #49

People Talking Past One Another... KharmaTrain Feb 2014 #54

How lovely to see you malaise Feb 2014 #65

Awwww... KharmaTrain Feb 2014 #68

It's heartbreaking to see so many nice DUers leave malaise Feb 2014 #69

Hear Hear, Ma'am The Magistrate Feb 2014 #4

How are you Sir malaise Feb 2014 #66

Indeed! In_The_Wind Feb 2014 #5

Agreed. We don't need the GOP to spout outdated, regressive views when we have them right here. livetohike Feb 2014 #6

well....here`s my answer madrchsod Feb 2014 #7

I have always loved that song malaise Feb 2014 #10

I don't DISagree with posting the topic marions ghost Feb 2014 #9

That is exactly why I do not read any of their posts. I am not going to add more wood to the fire. jwirr Feb 2014 #14

+1 deutsey Feb 2014 #18

It's one method. One of the many on display nationwide and on DU. Enthusiast Feb 2014 #16

Those issues are not distractions. They deserve to be debated on their merits. geek tragedy Feb 2014 #20

How can you call women's rights, that apply to more than 50% of the population, a "single issue"? pnwmom Feb 2014 #48

When something is "single issue" voters give that particular issue Enthusiast Feb 2014 #57

Because misogynist garbage is openly tolerated and deemed within community standards geek tragedy Feb 2014 #17

+1 DLevine Feb 2014 #21

count me in. Warren Stupidity Feb 2014 #23

already did--you've been a mensch on this nt geek tragedy Feb 2014 #24

What a disgusting post! City Lights Feb 2014 #25

This one is way out of line marions ghost Feb 2014 #52

I used to volunteer with a domestic violence hotline organization.. hlthe2b Feb 2014 #29

I did the same (how I met my wife) and that guy is an abuser, no doubt. geek tragedy Feb 2014 #31

Just so you know. DURHAM D Feb 2014 #45

Agree marions ghost Feb 2014 #36

Agree. DURHAM D Feb 2014 #46

We should continue to alert on this post marions ghost Feb 2014 #51

+infinity. (nt) jeff47 Feb 2014 #32

I really hope that unstable disk has fallen from the vehicle by now, if you bullwinkle428 Feb 2014 #39

It has. City Lights Feb 2014 #56

All I can say is you are right. Autumn Feb 2014 #27

Divide and conquer is the opposite of that. NuclearDem Feb 2014 #33

If you are a man.... sendero Feb 2014 #34

Bwaaaaaaaaaaah malaise Feb 2014 #70

Why can't we all just get along? libodem Feb 2014 #41

Why would groups that you attack welcome you? It's not that hard to get along with the members seaglass Feb 2014 #55

Goes back to when I joined, Seaglass libodem Feb 2014 #58

OK that was 9 years ago, perhaps you should let it go. Iverglas is no longer here. seaglass Feb 2014 #59

Of course libodem Feb 2014 #63

'discrimination that divides' is worth a lot of ignorant R votes. Sunlei Feb 2014 #43