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18. Your first two statements are how I wanted the OP to be, not the third statement.

Fri Feb 21, 2014, 01:50 AM

Feb 2014

I had hoped it would come out that way and it seems most people are viewing it that way, with one exception so far. I was just trying to demonstrate there are little things in life which remind us, while we have come a long way, we still are far from equality.

There can be some real issues when it comes to gay men. Notice how the fundies always complain about "homosexuals and lesbians?" It has to do with complete revulsion of gay men, as well as a sexist component against women.

Thanks for adding your PS because it helped me understand your post more. I appreciate the support.

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This is NOT about the evils of straight, white, men, BUT, it is about the reality of one gay man. [View all] Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 OP

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The one in Tulsa I beleive carries a small selection. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #3

You are NOT an "other"! nt sheshe2 Feb 2014 #9

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Seconding aerows and sheshe1 here. You are no "other". AverageJoe90 Feb 2014 #49

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"death by a thousand cuts" is a good way to describe it. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #71

as others have said... awoke_in_2003 Feb 2014 #80

also these "little things" are how a lot of people end up viewing the world JI7 Feb 2014 #2

^^^This^^^ n/t Gormy Cuss Feb 2014 #53

That is a very important point. redqueen Feb 2014 #57

This is very true. It adds the "human" touch to those of us looked at as "other." Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #63

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On the cards thing The Straight Story Feb 2014 #5

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When compared to say, Uganda, etc The Straight Story Feb 2014 #20

When I look at Scandanavian nations Aerows Feb 2014 #24

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You are a real person to me, BtA!! Sissyk Feb 2014 #6

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Thanks for your response. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #21

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I'm not understanding something frazzled Feb 2014 #12

I don't understand the accusatory nature of your post. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #17

My understanding frazzled Feb 2014 #22

I think you are making this about some thing it is not, and for what reason, I don't know. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #25

I don't think that it should be controversial to say that LGBT people are disadvantaged. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #13

Your first two statements are how I wanted the OP to be, not the third statement. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #18

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bizarre op frwrfpos Feb 2014 #31

OK. What was bizarre about it? Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #33

maybe im up to late frwrfpos Feb 2014 #35

No prob. The premise may be a bit convoluted, but basically... Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #36

Im always up for thinking from a different perspective frwrfpos Feb 2014 #37

Basically, it was seeing things from a gay perspective. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #38

I'm happy for you, but I'm sorry you're still made to feel "different." nomorenomore08 Feb 2014 #39

What survey? I'd love to see it!! Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #40

Luckily I have the link handy! Here you go: nomorenomore08 Feb 2014 #41

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