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Sweet Freedom

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7. I think the mom
Tue Feb 25, 2014, 12:07 PM
Feb 2014

was probably so shocked when her daughter died that she just couldn't accept what happened. Couple that with her religious beliefs and she just cannot bring herself to give permission to pull the plug because she's praying for a miracle. And since she believes in miracles, taking her daughter off life support would mean she's the one who ends her child's life, so she probably cannot mentally cope with the lifelong "what if" she made the wrong choice. She just can't do it, so she's waiting for her daughter to die on her own and then, in her head, she will believe she did everything she could. Like another poster said, she is stuck in denial.

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that poor girl, poor family. eom uppityperson Feb 2014 #1
Whoever gave them advice to do this should lose their license jsr Feb 2014 #2
I can't get past how tragic this situation is cinnabonbon Feb 2014 #3
stuck in the denial phase nt geek tragedy Feb 2014 #4
I have the deepest sympathy fro their pain... Adrahil Feb 2014 #5
It is sad PasadenaTrudy Feb 2014 #6
I think the mom Sweet Freedom Feb 2014 #7
This is just a sad story all around. n/t BeeBee Feb 2014 #8
This is indeed such a sad story vankuria Feb 2014 #9
I know! PasadenaTrudy Feb 2014 #10
>O<, chrisa Feb 2014 #11
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