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92. The most amusing thing about this, to me,

Fri Feb 28, 2014, 05:51 AM

Feb 2014

re: this current "beef du jour"...

Certain people here go on tirades, almost on a daily basis, about other peoples' word choices. They'll go on, and on, and on, endlessly about words that are even slightly not to their liking. The way it's done, you'd think it was a matter of someone's life or death.

Yet now they say, suddenly, when others bring up objections to terms used by them, it's a silly and inappropriate thing to do, even taking it to the extreme of calling into question the character and political creds of those objecting.

Headspin, anyone?

And another thing... I vaguely recall DU being lectured time after time, about how when someone tells you that you're offending them, it is your obligation to change the offending words. No "ifs, ands, or buts".

Yet now, what do we see? Oh my, all of a sudden that's out the window, and they're waving the stop-your-whining-we'll-be-as-offensive-as-we-want flag!

The daily dose of hypocrisy here is enough to give anyone a bad case of logical and ethical whiplash.

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Which is better? [View all] MannyGoldstein Feb 2014 OP

Other. It depends on who I have to work with to solve this problem. Autumn Feb 2014 #1

Huh? hrmjustin Feb 2014 #2

I'll take a wild guess BainsBane Feb 2014 #4

this is the one who mocked chicken and watermelon? Whisp Feb 2014 #5

Not that I'm aware of BainsBane Feb 2014 #9

there was another one where it was pretty much mocking black people JI7 Feb 2014 #10

Yes, that one. Whisp Feb 2014 #12

Is it okay to give a pass to the ones that mock Aerows Feb 2014 #42

I'm sorry you are hurt, Aerows. Seems to be a hurtful place for a lot of folks here lately. Whisp Feb 2014 #46

Actually, it really isn't the same. Aerows Feb 2014 #52

I really don't know what I said to get my assed kicked, Aerows... Whisp Feb 2014 #54

I've brought it up Aerows Feb 2014 #60

yes there was. And then another mocking women here for being "oversensitive" . bettyellen Feb 2014 #41

Gay baiting Aerows Feb 2014 #44

I think I did ask if the "gays want a pony" trope was next..... bettyellen Feb 2014 #53

They go hand in hand Aerows Feb 2014 #57

This is the one JustAnotherGen Feb 2014 #93

That's pretty good if you do it in a Mel Brooks voice. n/t A Simple Game Feb 2014 #117

n/t JustAnotherGen Feb 2014 #121

... M0rpheus Feb 2014 #132

bwahahahahaaa JustAnotherGen Feb 2014 #133

No; this is of the "waah, I can't listen to old Beatles songs" opus REP Feb 2014 #13

There should be a list, yes there is the Beatles thing As Well. n/t Whisp Feb 2014 #15

That's a great idea! MannyGoldstein Feb 2014 #19

We could even have a two minutes of hate! JVS Feb 2014 #49

Two minutes? MannyGoldstein Feb 2014 #51

It's not already? Capt. Obvious Feb 2014 #103

Oh ok. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #6

My guess was bullshit artists. Autumn Feb 2014 #8

Rather than making wild guesses, why not just be direct and ask the OP? I've never known him to be sabrina 1 Feb 2014 #23

... Whisp Feb 2014 #32

I know!!!! Manny ran over someone in a muscle car. Autumn Feb 2014 #39

It's a convertible which means it can be whatever you want it to be. cherokeeprogressive Feb 2014 #105

Nice car. Wish I could afford one, but you know, not to blow the theory or anything, I don't sabrina 1 Feb 2014 #45

It's a Rambler. n/t Whisp Feb 2014 #50

When you want to send a message, make sure you know the target. Cars are not my thing, I wouldn't sabrina 1 Feb 2014 #58

!!! Number23 Feb 2014 #72

Heheh... SidDithers Feb 2014 #78

LOL Cali_Democrat Feb 2014 #81

I know, 'ouch' is right. It hurts when you fire a dud and even that misfires. sabrina 1 Feb 2014 #141

Why are you replying to me? Cali_Democrat Feb 2014 #143

You mean you were not referring to the pain of that spectacular misfire? sabrina 1 Feb 2014 #144

Keep rambling. nt Cali_Democrat Feb 2014 #145

The only OUCH is revealing when one feels the need to hide behind a picture. polly7 Mar 2014 #157

Nice. polly7 Mar 2014 #156

That's a classic. nt msanthrope Mar 2014 #160

He has already been asked. BainsBane Feb 2014 #38

non whites and women CAN whine- they just need to submit their materials in advance so that anything bettyellen Feb 2014 #47

I was asked... what? MannyGoldstein Feb 2014 #48

What is this thread about, Manny? BainsBane Feb 2014 #69

You first... What was I asked? MannyGoldstein Feb 2014 #90

Hrmjustin wrote, "huh" BainsBane Feb 2014 #91

It's pretty clear what I'm talking about. MannyGoldstein Feb 2014 #100

You do realize that entire thread BainsBane Feb 2014 #136

What is your thread about? Cali_Democrat Feb 2014 #82

I don't know anyone like that, but then most of my friends are Liberal Democrats. Maybe you should sabrina 1 Feb 2014 #56

Yeah, we have been delivered to a lovely colorblind paradise!! And all who deny it are racist. bettyellen Feb 2014 #61

No, we have not, sadly. But some of us don't associate with bigots, nor do we use the very form of sabrina 1 Feb 2014 #67

I tried to say this the other day... you did it so much better. ty. nt 1awake Feb 2014 #64

Right on, Sabrina! Waiting For Everyman Feb 2014 #66

I only encounter them online, and I make a point of avoiding them when possible BainsBane Feb 2014 #94

This message was self-deleted by its author countryjake Feb 2014 #97

Here let me fix this for you, because I didn't apparently make myself clear and am more than capable sabrina 1 Feb 2014 #135

Welcome to the club! Number23 Feb 2014 #147

Put me down for the t-shirt. I don't pretend to have a full understanding, but msanthrope Mar 2014 #161

Lace trim or not? Number23 Mar 2014 #164

I suspect the Vlady Putin cheer squad is going to have a difficult week. msanthrope Mar 2014 #165

It has already been asked RC Feb 2014 #125

RC, you don't need to defend yourself at all. It is reprehensible that this forum has sabrina 1 Feb 2014 #137

WTF are you talking about? BainsBane Mar 2014 #154

As I have told you before, RC Mar 2014 #158

Fine, then why decide someone has attacked you BainsBane Mar 2014 #162

The thing that makes you think the jury system is skewed, it the fact you don't like most of RC Mar 2014 #163

Other. TexasTowelie Feb 2014 #3

If calling people cocksuckers is wrong then shouldn't you suck be off limits? JVS Feb 2014 #7

That would be an interesting song Pretzel_Warrior Feb 2014 #80

Other. Egalitarian Thug Feb 2014 #11

I voted You Suck for a much different reason that your poll. n/t Whisp Feb 2014 #14

Are you having some declarative/imperative confusion? nt MannyGoldstein Feb 2014 #18

Post removed Post removed Feb 2014 #22

I won't ask who the bell tolls for. MannyGoldstein Feb 2014 #25

... Gravitycollapse Feb 2014 #30

Yeahbut. MannyGoldstein Feb 2014 #55

This message was self-deleted by its author defacto7 Feb 2014 #68

John Donne, not Poe REP Feb 2014 #85

I surely missed that one. defacto7 Feb 2014 #146

Even though I'm far from religious, "Meditation 17" is a thoughtful and moving piece REP Mar 2014 #151

Beautifully said... defacto7 Mar 2014 #152

Good night to you as well ... REP Mar 2014 #153

"Here's a hit with you in mind" edbermac Feb 2014 #84

If you quote Donne, quote him properly. REP Feb 2014 #86

"You can run, but you can't hide, Manny." LittleBlue Feb 2014 #34

Manny shitstorms really are the best. Autumn Feb 2014 #43

I enjoy them Capt. Obvious Feb 2014 #104

If this is about what I think it's about 1awake Feb 2014 #16

That's where I'm at. Is this about the sacred cow or cheesecake? Autumn Feb 2014 #21

Cheescake can be a very serious and delicate thing!! :) nt 1awake Feb 2014 #28

I prefer cherry cheesecake m'self! BuelahWitch Feb 2014 #65

Yes! cherry cheesecake. Autumn Feb 2014 #116

If that's what it's about, then I agree. I was told to get lost for expressing MY opinion as a woman sabrina 1 Feb 2014 #24

lol awesome Sabrina1!! nt 1awake Feb 2014 #26

It is only through perfect agreement that we may show our independence. MannyGoldstein Feb 2014 #29

I always liked you. Cleita Feb 2014 #33

No way would I tell you to piss off. Love you too! Lol! sabrina 1 Feb 2014 #71

... Cleita Feb 2014 #74

YOU had a different opinion????? totaly shocked here. Autumn Feb 2014 #37

Lol, I know, I made the mistake of thinking I was allowed! But she let me know in no uncertain terms sabrina 1 Feb 2014 #70

Defintely #1. Le Taz Hot Feb 2014 #17

This poll is not analogous to the other DU discussions in reference. Gravitycollapse Feb 2014 #20

Yeah, and these here droids ain't the ones yer lookin' fer neither n/t Fumesucker Feb 2014 #63

I Wasn't Gonna Vote For "You Suck"... Until I Read Some Of The Comments... WillyT Feb 2014 #27

HA bettyellen Feb 2014 #62

It's better to try to fix problems than just acknowledging those problems exist. Vashta Nerada Feb 2014 #31

... Cleita Feb 2014 #36

You know which way I go. Aerows Feb 2014 #35

I like your response. Vashta Nerada Feb 2014 #40

Actually, more climbers die on their way back down Mt. Everest than on the way up Electric Monk Feb 2014 #75

Neat information Aerows Feb 2014 #76

I wouldn't have guessed that. Neat. Inkfreak Feb 2014 #108

Aerows, my friend ... polly7 Feb 2014 #129

I've been reading this thread while listening to this and LMFAO till I have to wipe my eyes Fumesucker Feb 2014 #59

... rrneck Feb 2014 #73

Glass is transparent. bravenak Feb 2014 #77

I am out of the loop; someone fill me in Skittles Feb 2014 #79

this is a "please stop using the words white privilege" support thread bettyellen Feb 2014 #83

This is about people seeing charges of privilege as personal attacks, I think (nt) Recursion Feb 2014 #88

Depends. Does the person suck? (nt) Recursion Feb 2014 #87

Other: FALSE DICHOTOMY. n/t nomorenomore08 Feb 2014 #89

The most amusing thing about this, to me, Waiting For Everyman Feb 2014 #92

And, it's disappointing to see "liberals" behave this way. pintobean Feb 2014 #98

How else are our more prolific posters gonna get that post count up? (nt) Inkfreak Feb 2014 #110

That sure is a long winded way of RC Feb 2014 #127

Pegged -- to a "t". pacalo Feb 2014 #139

Which is better: taking personally a systemic critique Recursion Feb 2014 #95

Other. We used to have a DU Activist Corps... countryjake Feb 2014 #96

"You suck" because it shows you care more than the "how do we work together" guy. pampango Feb 2014 #99

Depends on whom I'm addressing. Union Scribe Feb 2014 #101

Psychologically, it says allot if you take discussions of privilige personally. nt Democracyinkind Feb 2014 #102

Which is clearly what I did MannyGoldstein Feb 2014 #106

I think Manny Goldstein's passive-aggressive threads suck. kwassa Feb 2014 #107

He's just asking questions. sufrommich Feb 2014 #109

^^this^^ Bobbie Jo Feb 2014 #140

how about - "a day without superfluous DU polls" DrDan Feb 2014 #111

Apparently I have missed something. MineralMan Feb 2014 #112

And what if they refuse to acknowledge the problem? nt el_bryanto Feb 2014 #113

If people really care pipi_k Feb 2014 #114

You missed a classic, Manny. How about "STFU"? nt Zorra Feb 2014 #115

I see what you did, and it worked. A Simple Game Feb 2014 #118

Thanks, I guess, but not warranted. MannyGoldstein Feb 2014 #119

I think you were pointing out that name calling is not a good starting point... Well for anything. A Simple Game Feb 2014 #124

This one went off coourse when one of DU's prime thread-hijackers got in early. 11 Bravo Feb 2014 #128

Maybe you should just say what you mean, for a change. kwassa Feb 2014 #142

This message was self-deleted by its author defacto7 Mar 2014 #150

Polls that give the voter some sort of background are better. ScreamingMeemie Feb 2014 #120

That depends. When we say "you suck" are we talking about you, or me? Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #122

you suck arely staircase Feb 2014 #123

Alerting! L0oniX Feb 2014 #126

Without no background info provided, I'm gonna hafta go with "You suck!" Iggo Feb 2014 #130

This is like vaguebooking on Facebook. gollygee Feb 2014 #131

If about white privelege - you can't fix something if you don't acknowledge a problem exists. -nt- DireStrike Feb 2014 #134

Mannymania warrprayer Feb 2014 #138

More less stuff XRubicon Feb 2014 #148

Narrow minds are hard to hide. GeorgeGist Feb 2014 #149

You suck. Control-Z Mar 2014 #155

You suck...nt SidDithers Mar 2014 #159