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In reply to the discussion: I refuse to be baited on gender issues [View all]polly7
(20,582 posts)211. And we hear about women who also can't get sex and must travel all over the
world to find it.
http://opinion.latimes.com/opinionla/2007/11/what-to-make-of.html
What to make of reports from Kenya that more and more (old, rich, white) women are traveling to the country solely to cavort with (young, poor, black) locals?
According to Reuters which follows two white English women, aged 56 and 64, as they troll for big young boys who like us older girls the countrys tourism board isnt pleased with the unwholesome situation, wherein women exchange gifts for sex. Officials stopped short of condemning it in the way they have male sex tourism, however. And the women Reuters interviews seem to see it as a far lesser crime comparing it to ordinary courtship rituals like a man buying his female date dinner.
- See more at: http://opinion.latimes.com/opinionla/2007/11/what-to-make-of.html#sthash.BdEmiaf2.dpuf
According to Reuters which follows two white English women, aged 56 and 64, as they troll for big young boys who like us older girls the countrys tourism board isnt pleased with the unwholesome situation, wherein women exchange gifts for sex. Officials stopped short of condemning it in the way they have male sex tourism, however. And the women Reuters interviews seem to see it as a far lesser crime comparing it to ordinary courtship rituals like a man buying his female date dinner.
- See more at: http://opinion.latimes.com/opinionla/2007/11/what-to-make-of.html#sthash.BdEmiaf2.dpuf
And more abstractly, theres the obvious racial fetishes sex tourism perpetuates. Even Reuters wasnt immune. The article says that one solicited Kenyan male named Joseph resembled an Olympic basketball player. (They all look alike, dont they?) The story then describes a dance club as filled with Joseph look-alikes. (Hey, they do all look alike!)
- See more at: http://opinion.latimes.com/opinionla/2007/11/what-to-make-of.html#sthash.GZKuWWSw.dpuf
Why do women pay for sex?
December 9, 2013
Matty Silver
We tend to think that only men are willing to pay for sex but in the past decade more and more women have been looking for sexual experiences and have been willing to pay for them.
It is easier and more convenient than going to clubs or bars. Often the women do not want to be found out; they want it to be private and kept a secret.
Some career women with high disposable incomes are just too busy for relationships. Others who have had a break-up or painful divorce find it easier to have sex without strings attached.
The thought of trying to date again and meet somebody new is just too difficult for many but they miss sex. They may want a sexual massage or just to be touched and be intimate with somebody.
It is easier and more convenient than going to clubs or bars. Often the women do not want to be found out; they want it to be private and kept a secret.
Some career women with high disposable incomes are just too busy for relationships. Others who have had a break-up or painful divorce find it easier to have sex without strings attached.
The thought of trying to date again and meet somebody new is just too difficult for many but they miss sex. They may want a sexual massage or just to be touched and be intimate with somebody.
Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/why-do-women-pay-for-sex-20131209-2z11k.html#ixzz2v6CiyZK4
Do you have the same contempt for the 'woe, besotted women' who also pay for sex?
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if it gets too quiet, people are too respectful. then the games must then begin.
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#2
Disagree. Men have posted several insightful and understanding OPs about sexism.
cui bono
Mar 2014
#134
+1. lol. a simple human being, lol. which i guess would fall into that category, spooky... nt
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#24
but it is not happening NEARLY as much as has been claimed around here...
VanillaRhapsody
Mar 2014
#37
again, when you ignore or are clueless what the "argument" is defining it how you want to
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#45
You can say what you want, up to a point, but it looks to me like your only reason
cui bono
Mar 2014
#152
When have anyone, *anyone* on this site not approved of the things you mention?
KitSileya
Mar 2014
#171
i might want to argue, that even though a woman says she is done with the game, that does NOT mean
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#47
oh noes... mr bill. said that to boys while they grew up, were clueless. but,
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#69
cant even follow this conversation? we are now talking bout mr bill, that YOU brought up. nt
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#74
you learned from the mens group well. now, throw up your goofy little pictures to demean and dismiss
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#66
geeez, i would assume evil would be a little smart. nah, not even. silly, ya.
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#71
again, after first sentence, blah, blah. poster brought up evil out of his mind. address him. nt
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#98
no. you really merely used it as a diving board to throw out a bunch of insults to me. which....
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#101
Better to be funny than insulting people personally just for shits and giggles.
polly7
Mar 2014
#107
i betcha you almost NEVER alert. unless you come across one of mine. i hear ya. nt
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#197
You do nothing but bother with her posts. Count your posts on this thread alone.
R B Garr
Mar 2014
#215
i do not believe i say something at every opportunity, i think you are wrong. and i only make a
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#189
You post pictures all the time that some many consider inappropriate in a thread?
polly7
Mar 2014
#195
Yep, that's the exact same thing that happened to me for being part of HoF...
Violet_Crumble
Mar 2014
#182
You're right, there are definitely some good people posting there and I've read very
polly7
Mar 2014
#242
I courteously pointed out why I feel it is a men's group tactic. Agree or do not.
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#203
And I'm courteously pointing out that yr doing the same thing you used to complain about...
Violet_Crumble
Mar 2014
#240
That's it exactly. The attempt at trolling actually revealed a very sexist underlying attitude.
Squinch
Mar 2014
#113
I thought it kinda an insulting... Duh. Lol. Let's be obvious in the sexism. Nt
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#118
Agreed! It's really only a tiny handful engaging in this - the same tired ones over and over nt
Sarah Ibarruri
Mar 2014
#49
*** is an alpha.....?? lmfao. i am sorry. not being mean. just a brain flash of our "alphas"
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#82
an aplha woman kicking betas ass? who? who? lol. bah hahahah. this thread has become too funny.
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#120
I assume if I don't 100% agree with you on all women's issues I am the enemy. n-t
Logical
Mar 2014
#114
it is like with prostitution. we will hear argument that there are men that can NEVER get sex, and
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#204
"the most productive thing one can do in these instances is to try to educate"
redqueen
Mar 2014
#234
and for me, this is a world pornifying our girls, bringing it to a norm. i hear ya. nt
seabeyond
Mar 2014
#209