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JDPriestly

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24. + 1000. Abusive is the key word.

Wed Mar 5, 2014, 12:55 PM

Mar 2014

But much of the abusive parenting is due to the frustration of the parents in trying to raise children with few resources and huge demands. Then, of course, the ability to plan realistically for themselves is something that children of abusive parents often do not learn. So the abuse is passed on from generation to generation.

And a lot of the day-care for pre-school children is of low quality. Vicious circle of poverty and impulsive behavior due to abusive parenting and child-rearing techniques.

It's very sad. And it is possible to break the cycle with good parenting education. We just don't bother with it.

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I agree it ties in to wealth joeglow3 Mar 2014 #23

+ 1000. Abusive is the key word. JDPriestly Mar 2014 #24

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Common sense. joeglow3 Mar 2014 #51

It's simple, all right. It's a facile, shallow examination of a very complex issue. nt redqueen Mar 2014 #52

And yet, it is the single greatest predictor of a child's success joeglow3 Mar 2014 #53

According to that 30-year-old study? nt redqueen Mar 2014 #54

If by 30 year old, you mean from Jan. of 2014, then yes joeglow3 Mar 2014 #55

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