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51. "I can think of little more hateful than that" Oh...I can
Tue Mar 11, 2014, 03:49 AM
Mar 2014

From calling fellow women pets to thinking that men just want to whack off to rape porn. Or that all men seem to do is whack off to any images of women.

You are quick here on call outs yet you leave out those in your own group and what they say about men in general.

If men here on Du were to say half the things about women we see in HOF there would be hell to pay.

"Most men are not in fact sexual predators."

Yeah, try telling that to your friends. I have been called all sorts of things here. The most common is misogynist - ie, I hate women.

Traveling on over to HOF what I see is a meta style group who spends it's time not on the history of feminism but rather spending a lot of time bashing men here on DU.

We hate women, we just want to jack off to rape videos, we hate women, we don't care about the issues women face, we don't get it, and so on.

I am on the side of women. I get it. From objectification to straight white male privilege. Girls in my classes in school heard all about the white European men of the world, what they did in history, and they (and others) never really heard about women or others in history. From commercials to tv shows to history classes we all grew up hearing about, mostly, just one group.

Women, others, got left out and screwed over. That was wrong. Is wrong.

But that does not mean everything is sexist.

What I have seen time and again is that us men here on DU - progressive guys - are the enemy because we don't always agree on some points.

Time and time again we get told we are nothing more than just some 'thing' who wants to get off and that we hate women. I can side with women time after time on the issues, vote for those who feel the same way, but here on DU I am some evil sexist who hates women.

You have allies all around.

"Awful women saying no to men they consider unattractive. Another misandrist conspiracy. If the world were fair, women would have sex with anyone, even men who regularly insulted their gender and engaged in relentless self pity. "

WTF? Does it really have to be this twisted and complex?

From benevolent sexism to porn all I hear from a select few here is about how men are just assholes who hate women. Maybe it is time for those few to look at themselves and how they see men.

We are not out to get women, keep them down, we don't hate them.

We are not your ex boyfriends or lovers who treated you bad.

We are liberal men that respect women in general, are for your rights, care about women's issues, and want to elect people who will insure women and others have the same rights as everyone else.

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Before I look, let me guess uppityperson Mar 2014 #1
Looking at those makes me think we HAVE come a long way.n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2014 #2
Yes we have ... 1StrongBlackMan Mar 2014 #35
Wow! yeoman6987 Mar 2014 #53
Ah yes, who can forget the nose cones and the penis symbols. bemildred Mar 2014 #3
And to think these are from the "Good Old Days" that the Conservatives keep harking on! Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2014 #4
eeeesssshhhh Whisp Mar 2014 #5
And that one is not the worst of them! Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2014 #6
I've seen every episode of Mad Men. Jenoch Mar 2014 #37
All that spanking! Those Madison Avenue guys must have been some freaks. Scuba Mar 2014 #7
I know! Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2014 #8
I'd be willing to bet it's 90% projection from that group. adirondacker Mar 2014 #18
I recall the VW Bug ad... adirondacker Mar 2014 #9
... Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2014 #10
I showed this to my mother about ten years ago and your smilies are a dead on adirondacker Mar 2014 #13
And people don't get that those of us who lived through the 1950s Warpy Mar 2014 #11
Those are pretty awful and I remember them. Now let's get rid of all those Cleita Mar 2014 #68
I love the store circulars that come out around Mother's Day Warpy Mar 2014 #70
Or washing machine. My husband and I actually knew a guy who asked me to Cleita Mar 2014 #71
"Indoors women are useful, even pleasant. pipoman Mar 2014 #12
yeah, that one really is just maniacal in it's sociopathy. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #31
Holy Shit indeed. .. pipoman Mar 2014 #33
well, the woman could go into stereotype .... and be totally ironic and laugh Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #36
That pissed me off Boudica the Lyoness Mar 2014 #62
You've missed a lot, Lady Freedom BainsBane Mar 2014 #14
How true. Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2014 #16
No. No one will. nt Bonobo Mar 2014 #19
No, sorry, I doubt anyone will say anything of the sort... Demo_Chris Mar 2014 #21
It shows she is incapable seeing in anything but extremes. nt Bonobo Mar 2014 #22
Wherever could I have gotten that impression? BainsBane Mar 2014 #29
Such a lovely little thread, that one. Weaves quite the yarn, doesn't it? Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #34
Nevertheless you seem rather blind to gradations. nt Bonobo Mar 2014 #38
You really want to go there? BainsBane Mar 2014 #39
Did I ever say that? I seriously seriously doubt it. nt Bonobo Mar 2014 #40
Let's revisit what you have said BainsBane Mar 2014 #41
I take it that I didn't as it then, Bonobo Mar 2014 #43
No, I won't admit it BainsBane Mar 2014 #44
That's called lying. nt Bonobo Mar 2014 #45
No, sir. That is called being honestly doubtful and giving you the benefit of it. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #46
She made it up. Out of thin air. That is what lying is. Bonobo Mar 2014 #47
That's why I posted dozens of links BainsBane Mar 2014 #64
How would you know when you didn't bother to read my posts? BainsBane Mar 2014 #49
BB: "Aren't you still claiming HOF members hate sex?" Bonobo Mar 2014 #50
The point was your allegation that I can't see gradations BainsBane Mar 2014 #60
"I can think of little more hateful than that" Oh...I can The Straight Story Mar 2014 #51
So why do people watch rape porn? BainsBane Mar 2014 #59
I suppose you're right BainsBane Mar 2014 #24
Jury results... Agschmid Mar 2014 #26
wow. The Alerter. and Juror #4. but, really -- I have to address this: Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #28
I guess I was spot on BainsBane Mar 2014 #30
I am inclined to agree with you. Some people want to kill the messenger because they Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #32
4 people voting on personality Capt. Obvious Mar 2014 #66
I don't even know where to begin with this, so I won't bother. nt Demo_Chris Mar 2014 #42
Sabrina does not look normal. Odd. n-t Logical Mar 2014 #15
The old torpedo tits push-up bras. VScott Mar 2014 #17
Wow.. That looks like exactly what Republicans are talking about SomethingFishy Mar 2014 #20
OMG....those are aweful... one_voice Mar 2014 #23
It is always interesting to dip into the past. Behind the Aegis Mar 2014 #48
I remember seeing some of those before. Sissyk Mar 2014 #25
Wow, that's really disturbing. giftedgirl77 Mar 2014 #27
Rec for exposure... awoke_in_2003 Mar 2014 #52
They are awful My Good Babushka Mar 2014 #54
yeah, they are really vile Vattel Mar 2014 #55
Wish they'd included the year in all of them. YarnAddict Mar 2014 #56
Forties and fifties mostly. n/t Cleita Mar 2014 #69
K&R n/t Feral Child Mar 2014 #57
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Oh my gawd... TeeYiYi Mar 2014 #61
And it was taken for granted by so many ismnotwasm Mar 2014 #63
This is one of those things melm00se Mar 2014 #65
That projection equipment could really give a woman back pain. undeterred Mar 2014 #67
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