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lunatica

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25. Thank you. It's time for that dialogue we all must have
Mon Mar 26, 2012, 08:04 AM
Mar 2012

But white teen boys are generally perceived as potentially violent by a lot of people no matter what their skin color. But then they grow up and that perception is dropped.

When I was raising two boys and occasionally went to the Mall with them to shop for their shoes and clothes on every occasion groups of whites, especially older groups of retirees who also frequented the Mall in groups would actually look at them with fear. And more than once they would whisper to each other while looking at the boys. Yet that stopped as the boys became men. I hear you when you say it never stops for black men. It's a terrible thing to live with and I understand why many young men would react by deliberately trying to instill fear.

I think the best thing to do, and where to start is by questioning what exactly 'The Norm' is. And who says it's anything but a thin veneer of pretense. Nothing more than a costume we put on to pretend to be part of the accepted crowd.

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K&R! HipChick Mar 2012 #1
2nd that in spades! arthritisR_US Mar 2012 #5
K&R one_voice Mar 2012 #2
Bravo. Bravissimo. The Velveteen Ocelot Mar 2012 #3
Well said. nt Vanje Mar 2012 #4
Oh, so true, so sadly true csziggy Mar 2012 #6
As for the "hispanic" identification, that's because hispanics WANT to be identified by their Honeycombe8 Mar 2012 #7
Please note that such disclosures are voluntary and not subject to challenge ProgressiveProfessor Mar 2012 #29
That's right. Except that he'd probably spell his name correctly, Professor. nt Honeycombe8 Mar 2012 #40
Or be caught in a spell checker ProgressiveProfessor Mar 2012 #41
Thank you for this post Cali_Democrat Mar 2012 #8
K&R I like to think I know what it is like to be black in America rustydog Mar 2012 #9
The sad part is... MellowDem Mar 2012 #10
Video that captures some of wiggs Mar 2012 #11
87% Of People Stopped And Frisked By The NYPD In 2011 Were Black And Hispanic MrScorpio Mar 2012 #12
So deep, so true, thanks MrScorpio. freshwest Mar 2012 #13
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I LOVES ME SOME MRSCORPIO Skittles Mar 2012 #15
"I had to actually leave leave America to even be considered ordinary." noiretextatique Mar 2012 #16
Post removed Post removed Mar 2012 #17
I guess I struck a nerve... MrScorpio Mar 2012 #19
Just another freeper that thinks "tolerance" requires one to tolerate intolerance Major Nikon Mar 2012 #20
Thank you for posting that... ellisonz Mar 2012 #18
Oh looky a new account with one post... Kalidurga Mar 2012 #21
Zimmerman was a cop wannabe Major Nikon Mar 2012 #22
Where did he get the idea that being a cop meant that he was obligated to police young black males? MrScorpio Mar 2012 #24
Perhaps he was just trying to emulate real cops Major Nikon Mar 2012 #34
thank you SemperEadem Mar 2012 #32
Excellent commentary. Major Hogwash Mar 2012 #23
Thank you. It's time for that dialogue we all must have lunatica Mar 2012 #25
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Outstanding post. wildeyed Mar 2012 #28
Thank you Mr. Scorpio.....great post livetohike Mar 2012 #30
He represents anyone who has ever been considered 'suspect' by another person LynneSin Mar 2012 #31
so very well said Bluerthanblue Mar 2012 #33
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Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Mar 2012 #37
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