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laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
35. I agree.
Tue Apr 1, 2014, 04:05 PM
Apr 2014

My grandmother, who was an extremely devout catholic, RAN to go get the first incarnation of the birth control pill. She was a tiny woman, 4'11", who birthed mostly 10 lb babies after really terrible labors. After 8 kids she'd had enough and was thrilled to have an option. She kept it on the 'down low' though, as she didn't want anyone else to know, she was afraid her faith would be questioned. She loved her kids fiercely but she really suffered during pregnancy and birth and she knew she wanted to concentrate on the kids she already had. By then, though, she was already in her late 30's, so she only took them for a few years till she hit menopause.

The miracle was that she was very good with the 'natural' method before she started with the BC pill. While she had 8 kids using the 'natural' method, her contemporaries - my great aunts - who mostly used no method at all had between 15 and 21 kids. Crazy. While my grandmother was devout, she understood that the church itself was run by old men who had no clue what giving birth was like, so she basically discounted their ridiculous presumptions about fertility and birth control.

Pretty much every single Catholic woman I know - and I know a LOT of them being Catholic growing up - took/takes birth control. The church is shooting itself in the foot if they push this.

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well Did they or didn't they> that is the question. n/t hollysmom Apr 2014 #1
Link to original article gollygee Apr 2014 #2
Meanwhile the writer of the article and editors of the paper HERVEPA Apr 2014 #3
Abington and Holy Redeemer Freddie Apr 2014 #32
Thanks for the details Freddie HERVEPA Apr 2014 #41
There are plenty of regressive anti birth control Republicans. They seem to be given a pass. gordianot Apr 2014 #4
unfuckingbelievable mopinko Apr 2014 #5
For what? It is all for political reasons. Enthusiast Apr 2014 #15
So... Sweet Freedom Apr 2014 #6
As long as they drop a twenty in the collection cup...nt Wounded Bear Apr 2014 #33
I attended a meeting about this issue last month TexasProgresive Apr 2014 #7
I can imagine what that meeting was like! But, the good news is that... TreasonousBastard Apr 2014 #18
Lack of access to contraception is also a great loss for the poor theHandpuppet Apr 2014 #22
Put for-profit Catholic hospitals out of business. Loki Apr 2014 #8
A lot of poor people rely on those Catholic hospitals, wall_dish Apr 2014 #21
Really? theHandpuppet Apr 2014 #23
The one here does- TexasProgresive Apr 2014 #25
That is not a response to the Mother Jones article theHandpuppet Apr 2014 #28
The 3 in my area do. wall_dish Apr 2014 #27
So do most hospitals, Catholic or not theHandpuppet Apr 2014 #29
I have no idea if they do or don't and I'm not inclined to find out. wall_dish Apr 2014 #30
The "profits" are rolled back into improvements to plant, indigent health care - TexasProgresive Apr 2014 #24
My daughter has it to help with acne and to regulate periods. The added bonus is she is a bit more Ed Suspicious Apr 2014 #9
The simple solution? SCVDem Apr 2014 #10
This should be a given for progressives-nt Anansi1171 Apr 2014 #26
Let's hear how awesome the new church is now! Marrah_G Apr 2014 #11
prohibition in "name only" nothing will actually change OKNancy Apr 2014 #12
Get your facts out of here. We have false outrage to focus on... joeglow3 Apr 2014 #17
Sigh! Two posts showing how the situation... TreasonousBastard Apr 2014 #19
FOX23 tried to ask several follow up questions, in response to the company’s statement, but we were progressoid Apr 2014 #39
And so it begins.... blackspade Apr 2014 #13
The Catholic Church is making a bad mistake here. Enthusiast Apr 2014 #14
I agree. laundry_queen Apr 2014 #35
Women had to be super resourceful in those days. Now too, of course. Enthusiast Apr 2014 #38
But Pope Photo-Op drives a Renault!!... SidDithers Apr 2014 #16
lol April Fools! Boudica the Lyoness Apr 2014 #20
Practicing medicine without licenses or examinations. Orsino Apr 2014 #31
So...did they give that order? theboss Apr 2014 #34
The original article is a little better. progressoid Apr 2014 #40
Fucking Regressive Idiots. truebrit71 Apr 2014 #36
So, the argument is they are the good guys ohheckyeah Apr 2014 #37
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