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In reply to the discussion: I could kick myself. A young woman politely stopped me in food store parking lot, needing money [View all]Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)15. Yep. Scam.
"Mister, can you help me? Me and my husband ran out of gas, and we've no money to buy any we spent what little we had on formula for the baby. If you could spare a twenty, we could get her home 'cause it's getting awfully cold out." Her voice drops a bit. "It's just a loan I'm asking for, mister. I'll mail it right back to you, soon as I get my paycheck this Friday." At this point you see an equally scroungy-looking young man standing by the van clutching a blanket-swaddled bundle you assume is the couple's infant.
Your kind heart says to give this young woman the twenty dollars she asks for. But your common sense says otherwise. So which do you listen to?
If you're like a great many folks, you fork over the twenty . . . only to later discover you've been had. The "stranded baby-toting couple at the gas station" is but one of the many successful "distressed stranger" scams common to the urban experience.
These swindles are a fact of modern life, and it is only a matter of time before you encounter one being run on you. Our desire to believe what we've been told coupled with our urge to perform occasional good deeds leaves us vulnerable to such cons. We take folks at face value, which sets us up as pigeons to be taken advantage of.
Read more at http://www.snopes.com/fraud/distress/stranded.asp#T7yTWczmmeb8pP3S.99
Your kind heart says to give this young woman the twenty dollars she asks for. But your common sense says otherwise. So which do you listen to?
If you're like a great many folks, you fork over the twenty . . . only to later discover you've been had. The "stranded baby-toting couple at the gas station" is but one of the many successful "distressed stranger" scams common to the urban experience.
These swindles are a fact of modern life, and it is only a matter of time before you encounter one being run on you. Our desire to believe what we've been told coupled with our urge to perform occasional good deeds leaves us vulnerable to such cons. We take folks at face value, which sets us up as pigeons to be taken advantage of.
Read more at http://www.snopes.com/fraud/distress/stranded.asp#T7yTWczmmeb8pP3S.99
By all means I would pump them some gas and pay for it myself. But I'm not handing over any cash.
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I could kick myself. A young woman politely stopped me in food store parking lot, needing money [View all]
phylny
Apr 2014
OP
I assume most people who approach me with a bus/gas money scenario are "scammers" -- however
Arugula Latte
Apr 2014
#26
Me too. I even give to the honest ones who want a bottle, they probably need that bottle
Warpy
Apr 2014
#47
You helped. You done good. If there is a next time you'll remember to do it.
applegrove
Apr 2014
#12
You did a good thing and you're kicking yourself for not doing a gooder thing.
Glassunion
Apr 2014
#16
Having worked in NYC for so many years, there were people with well rehearsed scams,
hollysmom
Apr 2014
#19
She said her husband and kids were in the car, they spent all their money and WIC money buying food
lunasun
Apr 2014
#63
That's how I do too. Once, a guy came to my office on Christmas eve saying he had lost everything,
Hoyt
Apr 2014
#41
if the price for helping others is occasionally being taken for a ride - for me it is a price worth
Douglas Carpenter
Apr 2014
#36
Not me. Professional scammers are lying sociopaths who are expert at recognizing and preying
Zorra
Apr 2014
#58
Been in that boat before. Took a young man grocery shopping, and tried to connect
GreenPartyVoter
Apr 2014
#39