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Violet_Crumble

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310. I'm not sure if the mentions of me were in a purely positive light, but I'm not ashamed

Mon Apr 14, 2014, 05:54 AM

Apr 2014

It's hard to feel much on top of the icky feeling I got when reading the transphobic comments and the vile stuff aimed at one or two DUers, not to mention navigating through all the spammers and the posts obsessing about not clicking on direct links for fear of being discovered while they were posting on a publicly available forum. Y'know, if people aren't going to take responsibility for what they say, at least have the foresight to find themselves a forum to use that's a private one.

If I'd been one of that bunch, no-one, not even that bunch, would have spotted me because I would have chosen myself a super clever name that would never give me away, like Victoria Crabtree. And I'd say 'ass' a lot instead of 'arse' so everyone would think I was American! And I'd post a lot about my undying love for Celine Dion, Michael Buble, and spammers who are flogging cheap handbags online. Seriously, after that, how would people not be able to resist saying positive things about me??

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Is this blog post intolerant of the transgendered? [View all] TransitJohn Apr 2014 OP

Never heard of it, nor... 99Forever Apr 2014 #1

I don't think it is a hate blog, it's a feminist blog TransitJohn Apr 2014 #2

Okay. 99Forever Apr 2014 #5

That's what I was thinking, but I also think it's intolerant and bigoted. eom TransitJohn Apr 2014 #7

Then we are in agreement. 99Forever Apr 2014 #8

Well, at least whoever writes there isn't very bright snooper2 Apr 2014 #112

I believe that the alternate spelling is intentional. Chellee Apr 2014 #113

Really, LOL, I guess that makes sense, learned something new today :) snooper2 Apr 2014 #115

Well, I won't throw "herstory" at you then. Chellee Apr 2014 #120

Kind of like Miscrosoft'sconspiracy against men BainsBane Apr 2014 #415

yes RainDog Apr 2014 #3

I consider my self a feminist auntsue Apr 2014 #107

Yes LadyHawkAZ Apr 2014 #4

It's cruel and stupid. Nine Apr 2014 #6

Yes it is. Unfortunately there is a huge undercurrent of transphobia in some feminist circles. NuclearDem Apr 2014 #9

my guess is the tiny subset of feminists who hate men, will only see a transgendered female as a man dionysus Apr 2014 #76

There is an even larger overt current of transphobia... NCTraveler Apr 2014 #429

That blogger thinks people who don't agree with them are being abusive The Straight Story Apr 2014 #10

i agree with you about the intolerance, but i disagree with you on blocking CreekDog Apr 2014 #160

I agree n/t RainDog Apr 2014 #164

"Typical mindset of some when others don't agree with them..... AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #263

Yes. Ms. Toad Apr 2014 #11

I didn't know about this facet, or subset, of feminism TransitJohn Apr 2014 #12

It has been around forever. That view is becoming more marginalized, Ms. Toad Apr 2014 #23

This message was self-deleted by its author TeeYiYi Apr 2014 #18

Anyone who scapegoats, and foments hatred toward, a minority group, does not belong on DU. nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #48

It's not just DU - Ms. Toad Apr 2014 #66

I know. People are so blind to their own flaws and contradictions. n/t nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #69

I know Iverglas was part of this RainDog Apr 2014 #62

I'm lousy at names. Ms. Toad Apr 2014 #67

Iverglas, Eloriel/Remember Me, Sargasso Sea/Feldspar LadyHawkAZ Apr 2014 #77

I remember that. tammywammy Apr 2014 #79

thanks RainDog Apr 2014 #83

"impenetrably-codenamed friends" opiate69 Apr 2014 #84

It's pretty obvious RainDog Apr 2014 #85

Results of the alert on your post Sissyk Apr 2014 #86

LOL RainDog Apr 2014 #87

I am glad you enjoyed my jury comment etherealtruth Apr 2014 #91

It wasn't snide RainDog Apr 2014 #93

and why don't you ask those who are named RainDog Apr 2014 #94

I do not have a clue who iverglas is, nor do I care etherealtruth Apr 2014 #95

so you don't really know anything about the situation RainDog Apr 2014 #96

the discussion isn't childish at all CreekDog Apr 2014 #175

I did not call the discussion childish, I called a comment childish etherealtruth Apr 2014 #189

You didn't read all those links Sissyk Apr 2014 #190

Not sure what you are talking about ... there is not a link in a response to me etherealtruth Apr 2014 #191

I was that main person who was exposed in that manner she is talking about. Neoma Apr 2014 #224

+1 pintobean Apr 2014 #230

Considered to be a truamatic event, with all said and done. Neoma Apr 2014 #231

Well, it's really good to see you here. pintobean Apr 2014 #236

Post removed Post removed Apr 2014 #235

I'm curious to what mess you're talking about. Neoma Apr 2014 #251

Plus a bazillian, Neoma! polly7 Apr 2014 #256

It was truly, truly ugly enigmatic Apr 2014 #258

Wow LittleBlue Apr 2014 #289

as I said back then, you did a great job under the horrible circumstances you were given CreekDog Apr 2014 #294

... LadyHawkAZ Apr 2014 #296

This is the last post I will make on this (this has become absurdly funny) etherealtruth Apr 2014 #252

Fair enough. Neoma Apr 2014 #255

doesn't seem like you read more than 3 words from the post you're responding to CreekDog Apr 2014 #293

oh, and the reason we know it's not made up RainDog Apr 2014 #88

There are quite a few active member here that posted at that stinkhole maddezmom Apr 2014 #90

The funny thing is RainDog Apr 2014 #92

Holy.Shit! Sissyk Apr 2014 #97

And here is someone wondering how they can get Steve Leser ts'd RainDog Apr 2014 #98

That is some seriously fucked up shit. Sissyk Apr 2014 #100

Yup yup.. but of course... opiate69 Apr 2014 #102

It shows a degree of contemptuous presumed stupidity of their fellow "dump" posters. lumberjack_jeff Apr 2014 #104

I hear you. Sissyk Apr 2014 #105

Not to mention that I'm not a man RainDog Apr 2014 #106

No doubt. RiffRandell Apr 2014 #109

here's someone lying about being trans RainDog Apr 2014 #125

Oh, snap. opiate69 Apr 2014 #126

It would appear that misstee is MadrasT RainDog Apr 2014 #193

btw, Sissyk Apr 2014 #101

I don't know who it is RainDog Apr 2014 #103

Apparently all the attention upset someone... LadyHawkAZ Apr 2014 #108

edited title RainDog Apr 2014 #124

At least one of them is certainly trolling enigmatic Apr 2014 #176

Off-Topic Jamastiene Apr 2014 #183

!! enigmatic Apr 2014 #185

I never found that leaving was a choice. Neoma Apr 2014 #253

The whole thing was just too creepy for me enigmatic Apr 2014 #257

That site again? It looks like it was made by a 5-year-old. chrisa Apr 2014 #110

Read the names. Sissyk Apr 2014 #111

separatists RainDog Apr 2014 #114

Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2014 #116

Hi feldspar maddezmom Apr 2014 #117

Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2014 #118

I'm glad some of you have "institutional memories" RainDog Apr 2014 #121

There were more but here is another one maddezmom Apr 2014 #122

And yet another.. opiate69 Apr 2014 #123

It's Sargasso Sea, not serabellum RainDog Apr 2014 #127

Ok... opiate69 Apr 2014 #128

which the deleted message indicated too RainDog Apr 2014 #129

Fashion Guru also talked about getting Zorra banned from hof RainDog Apr 2014 #131

Yeah, pretty sure that is right maddezmom Apr 2014 #130

It's that MIRT "know your troll" info RainDog Apr 2014 #132

Pretty sure it is in there somewhere maddezmom Apr 2014 #133

Was Helen Reddy one of those trolls? RainDog Apr 2014 #134

Not sure who HelenReddy was before maddezmom Apr 2014 #135

Yes, she was. opiate69 Apr 2014 #136

someone here said xulamaude wasn't HReddy RainDog Apr 2014 #139

Unfortunately... opiate69 Apr 2014 #141

I've never really tried to break it down before now RainDog Apr 2014 #143

Yeah.. ultimately, it's pretty fucking convoluted, really.. opiate69 Apr 2014 #144

Which is why I also say so many of these fights RainDog Apr 2014 #145

You can alert on your own post. pintobean Apr 2014 #161

LOL, wuh? RainDog Apr 2014 #162

i don't know but they were all types of schists CreekDog Apr 2014 #181

why should anyone believe what you say? RainDog Apr 2014 #119

I can certainly vouch for the PM exchange mentioned that involved me LadyHawkAZ Apr 2014 #137

I think public apologies would go a long way RainDog Apr 2014 #140

Perfectly stated. opiate69 Apr 2014 #142

To me, Sissyk Apr 2014 #146

Oh! I left out one name. Sissyk Apr 2014 #147

GVScout is also there RainDog Apr 2014 #148

I think if you take off the G and the V Sissyk Apr 2014 #149

Here's another person who would've had knowledge of the group RainDog Apr 2014 #150

I hear what you're saying, RainDog, Sissyk Apr 2014 #152

Hold on BainsBane Apr 2014 #168

This post was Alerted on an received a 0 - 7 vote to leave. DURHAM D Apr 2014 #173

Thanks BainsBane Apr 2014 #178

I only made it halfway through the thread so far and THEN you have to go and snooper2 Apr 2014 #315

I know BainsBane Apr 2014 #320

Please tell me you are hunting and pecking snooper2 Apr 2014 #323

No, sorry BainsBane Apr 2014 #324

I think the marching orders have been handed down from beyond the grave LadyHawkAZ Apr 2014 #165

maybe that's the point of posting RainDog Apr 2014 #170

My best guess? opiate69 Apr 2014 #172

Possible. Probable. LadyHawkAZ Apr 2014 #177

so whoever has done that here RainDog Apr 2014 #182

While the creativity here is fascinating BainsBane Apr 2014 #367

One of the folks has pm'd me to apologize. Reality is, I'm so used to crap being spewed about me stevenleser Apr 2014 #220

If people were actually concered for your reputation BainsBane Apr 2014 #227

The thought occurred to me. Perhaps they wanted to make sure I and others saw it and the other stevenleser Apr 2014 #232

or maybe she is doing it simply cause she feels "slighted" by hof, screw the innocents that she hurt seabeyond Apr 2014 #234

As suspected the apologies never came Major Nikon May 2014 #519

+1,000 brazillions. nt Bonobo Apr 2014 #299

Post removed Post removed Apr 2014 #300

and that's what happened CreekDog Apr 2014 #180

People need lives... Agschmid Apr 2014 #267

Perhaps you can see why some that have been slimed by them... Bonobo Apr 2014 #297

Do you have links? BainsBane Apr 2014 #303

Too long! give me a chance here! snooper2 Apr 2014 #316

Hey! If you didn't have to come back Sissyk Apr 2014 #318

Well, done now, I think, I'll wait till it goes over 400 replies then start over snooper2 Apr 2014 #319

feldspar and another one with a rock theme to their username. Jamastiene Apr 2014 #154

I don't know if iverglas hated lesbians or not RainDog Apr 2014 #155

I know Iverglas railed, ranted, and raved on that weird message board of hers Jamastiene Apr 2014 #157

I think it's about expecting 100% agreement RainDog Apr 2014 #159

She got onto me too. FloridaJudy Apr 2014 #167

You are excellent company. Jamastiene Apr 2014 #184

Eloriel's most recent incarnation was as "Remember Me" and we did CreekDog Apr 2014 #158

I think she may have been Xulamaude after that RainDog Apr 2014 #163

but intaglio is back now RainDog Apr 2014 #192

This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #197

That was a classic meltdown maddezmom Apr 2014 #198

the moon bomber was Omega Minimo CreekDog Apr 2014 #174

Here's how I break it down, tho I could be wrong RainDog Apr 2014 #196

Jury Results JJChambers Apr 2014 #200

...I'm having trouble with all this. Shandris Apr 2014 #201

Don't write my screen name one more time regarding this. boston bean Apr 2014 #202

I'll delete your name RainDog Apr 2014 #203

What a piss poor excuse. boston bean Apr 2014 #205

No. I did not say I am wrong RainDog Apr 2014 #206

Get this. I don't give a shit what you are saying. boston bean Apr 2014 #208

LOL. I already deleted your name here RainDog Apr 2014 #211

I don't find anything to LOL at regarding your false accusations about me. boston bean Apr 2014 #215

It was an honest mistake RainDog Apr 2014 #217

I came into this thread to set you straight. boston bean Apr 2014 #218

there is no post here that mentions you RainDog Apr 2014 #219

Do whatever the hell you want to do. boston bean Apr 2014 #221

Everyone is entitled to an opinion RainDog Apr 2014 #222

If you really want to have clean hands in all this pintobean Apr 2014 #239

meta? this si not a little meta subthread of hate you are playing in. poke poke seabeyond Apr 2014 #241

What's with you repeatedly replying to me with "poke poke"? pintobean Apr 2014 #254

honest mistake? i never said steven molested his daughter. you put that out as fact. seabeyond Apr 2014 #228

Post removed Post removed Apr 2014 #262

What's a lie? Are you saying that "DUckies" website isn't what it pretty fucking obviously is? Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #212

What I said was a lie, Exactly what I stated, Warren. boston bean Apr 2014 #214

The reason I bothered to look into this RainDog Apr 2014 #223

You posted about it BEFORE you were alerted on BainsBane Apr 2014 #264

You don't see a difference between using the site search function available to all members BainsBane Apr 2014 #225

You find something said by me that contradicts anything I've said here on DU, knock yourself out. Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #246

I agree BainsBane Apr 2014 #260

oh man! I was just starting to make progress again LOL snooper2 Apr 2014 #317

Why force yoursefl? BainsBane Apr 2014 #321

I didn't "participate" in that site either, but I'm pretty clearly mentioned. Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #209

so you got it warren. a year and a half peddling this bullshit to get someone to start the shit over seabeyond Apr 2014 #237

Yeah, it's MY fault you guys said all that stuff, over there. Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #244

ya. right. fuck..... seabeyond Apr 2014 #248

I haven't "trashed" you, at all, sea. Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #249

You can't be serious BainsBane Apr 2014 #282

Ya...everyone else is at fault for your posts off site maddezmom Apr 2014 #284

I'm glad it's not just me who notices that. Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #290

I am sure a lot more noticed it as well maddezmom Apr 2014 #291

ya, right really? ya I noticed it as well... Violet_Crumble Apr 2014 #309

Hi Violet_Crumble maddezmom Apr 2014 #312

Hiya maddezmom... Violet_Crumble Apr 2014 #313

So is there some sort of statute of limitations on when your own words can't be used against you? Major Nikon Apr 2014 #285

She can't answer you pintobean Apr 2014 #286

Noted Major Nikon Apr 2014 #287

The MRA's are only one post away from silencing her Capt. Obvious Apr 2014 #372

The Minnesota Rodeo Association? pintobean Apr 2014 #377

What are the odds Capt. Obvious Apr 2014 #378

This message was self-deleted by its author Comrade Grumpy Apr 2014 #411

Posters are responsible for what they post, not some bogeyman. Comrade Grumpy Apr 2014 #412

But the keepers of the patriarchy are the ones silencing her Capt. Obvious Apr 2014 #417

Since you posses the omniscience BainsBane Apr 2014 #292

It's not "omniscience"... one of the bloggers in question is right there in the comment window Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #301

How about the Reddit site? BainsBane Apr 2014 #302

You're changing the subject. You suggested Nikon was using "omniscience" to glean a relationship btw Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #304

Okay BainsBane Apr 2014 #305

You can take it however you choose. Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #306

You don't seem to have read or understood my post BainsBane Apr 2014 #307

1) I don't, and 2) It's irrelevant and a weak attempt to change the subject. Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #308

Actually it offered a pretty good example of the point I was making Major Nikon Apr 2014 #311

"Guilt by association" BainsBane Apr 2014 #366

I wasn't discussing MIRT BainsBane Apr 2014 #322

You claimed it was "omniscience" that led Nikon to draw a link between that blog and DU. Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #333

I already gave you specifics BainsBane Apr 2014 #343

I participate in what interests ME. Im not in charge of what other people talk about. Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #347

It wasn't bragging BainsBane Apr 2014 #353

Fair enough. i dont remember sending you a PM and simultaneously advising you not to Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #354

Let me try to sort a bit of this out BainsBane Apr 2014 #355

You're confusing different situations. Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #358

Here's the thing BainsBane Apr 2014 #361

Well, we've all been uncool at times. Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #365

Lol pintobean Apr 2014 #357

People can associate with anyone they want maddezmom Apr 2014 #327

You don't have to take lectures from anyone BainsBane Apr 2014 #329

Couple things maddezmom Apr 2014 #330

.. but then... opiate69 Apr 2014 #332

! pintobean Apr 2014 #337

I remember someone else who thought BainsBane Apr 2014 #362

He's referring to your hof thread pintobean Apr 2014 #363

I am most certainly not suggesting anyone be PPR'd BainsBane Apr 2014 #364

You are hilarious. pintobean Apr 2014 #368

Given that you're the one who keeps mentioning it BainsBane Apr 2014 #413

That one didn't stick, either. pintobean Apr 2014 #416

Then let me make myself clear BainsBane Apr 2014 #423

I understood what you meant the first time pintobean Apr 2014 #424

Lol. Yup yup.. opiate69 Apr 2014 #426

I mentioned something once, it's an obsession BainsBane Apr 2014 #431

... Lately. n/t lumberjack_jeff Apr 2014 #407

Oh, Jeff BainsBane Apr 2014 #422

No, you're special. n/t lumberjack_jeff Apr 2014 #436

Ah, shucks BainsBane Apr 2014 #438

Clearly people cannot easily associate the names BainsBane Apr 2014 #350

Ok BainsBain maddezmom Apr 2014 #352

"As for former DUers, who cares?" pintobean Apr 2014 #331

No, the true colors have been shown of you and all your friends. RiffRandell Apr 2014 #250

Amen! pintobean Apr 2014 #259

What do you mean by causing trouble? BainsBane Apr 2014 #265

You're a troublemaker. RiffRandell Apr 2014 #269

Rest my case. RiffRandell Apr 2014 #270

What case does that rest? BainsBane Apr 2014 #271

Admit you alerted on it. RiffRandell Apr 2014 #272

I alerted on one of your posts just FYI... Agschmid Apr 2014 #274

That was not my alert BainsBane Apr 2014 #275

I never accused you of being a child molester! RiffRandell Apr 2014 #278

You accused me of calling someone else a child molester BainsBane Apr 2014 #279

No, I didn't. RiffRandell Apr 2014 #280

You mean asking for proof of your allegations? BainsBane Apr 2014 #281

Did she SAY threads about violence against women and gun polly7 Apr 2014 #273

Alerted for being a "Men's Group regular" Inkfreak Apr 2014 #457

Right! RiffRandell Apr 2014 #468

You were alerted on BainsBane Apr 2014 #470

Well, it stood! RiffRandell Apr 2014 #472

A hot topic? BainsBane Apr 2014 #475

I'm not one that constantly alerts and must have my way. RiffRandell Apr 2014 #490

Is it really so difficult BainsBane Apr 2014 #493

Haha, says the person that had the 2nd most post hidden for a time maddezmom Apr 2014 #498

But going over to CC maddezmom Apr 2014 #481

Way more gross than posting a Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issue. RiffRandell Apr 2014 #482

You are not the BB named? I saw this site sometime back. msanthrope Apr 2014 #207

No, I am not. And I never fucking participated. boston bean Apr 2014 #210

It could be Bob Balaban. Barbara Bush. Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #213

It's Bob Barker. I'd put money on it. LadyHawkAZ Apr 2014 #216

And here I thought it was Bat Boy opiate69 Apr 2014 #247

This message was self-deleted by its author quinnox Apr 2014 #229

who was not even on the fuggin board at the time... jeezus you people are a mess in your accusation seabeyond Apr 2014 #233

Ya know, I checked and its true that they joined DU after most of the posts on that board. So I will quinnox Apr 2014 #238

cause quinnox, you of course have NEVER said ANYTHING about me in ANY pms to others. right? seabeyond Apr 2014 #240

First, that is entirely a private matter, what I may say in any PMs. But speaking hypothetically, quinnox Apr 2014 #242

ya. kinda like being OFF fuggin du is private. i hear ya. oh wait. until those with the intent to seabeyond Apr 2014 #243

Jesus, sea, I am just an observer of this thread. I made one post a long time ago in this thread, quinnox Apr 2014 #245

Just observing? BainsBane Apr 2014 #268

I would hope that they would come up with a better name than basically the same one they use here. Agschmid Apr 2014 #276

Post removed Post removed Apr 2014 #295

Indeed....I think I would be ashamed to be mentioned in a positive light msanthrope Apr 2014 #298

I'm not sure if the mentions of me were in a purely positive light, but I'm not ashamed Violet_Crumble Apr 2014 #310

I wouldn't characterize what was said about you as positive. msanthrope Apr 2014 #314

0-7 to leave this. nt msanthrope Apr 2014 #204

If i posted the weather it would get alerted CreekDog Apr 2014 #266

Only if it was a crappy forecast, sunshine only please. Agschmid Apr 2014 #277

And this thread is, itself, approaching Moon Bombing size. Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #484

I got here through jury service... pacalo Apr 2014 #504

It's stupid. Iggo Apr 2014 #13

Is that the motivation behind this thread? Nine Apr 2014 #14

No, it wasn't. TransitJohn Apr 2014 #16

ok Nine Apr 2014 #19

Tell us a little about your "exasperation at posts discussing rape." Sheldon Cooper Apr 2014 #38

DU used to be a political board TransitJohn Apr 2014 #39

It does seem at times The Straight Story Apr 2014 #41

Re: "Purity" It ain't just with the SJWs, either. The climate doomers are really bad about this too! AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #261

How is rape not political? BainsBane Apr 2014 #42

You've really lost me, and put forth a lot more effort overanalyzing my posts in this thread TransitJohn Apr 2014 #45

The "Rape issue" over-pushed? Seriously? TDale313 Apr 2014 #73

+1 n/t JTFrog Apr 2014 #82

+ another n/t seaglass Apr 2014 #89

Yep, same. laundry_queen Apr 2014 #99

Oh I think you're doing a fine job of impugning yourself. Sheldon Cooper Apr 2014 #63

How is using this small,insignificant group of sufrommich Apr 2014 #81

Couldn't tell ya. Iggo Apr 2014 #17

agreed. nt La Lioness Priyanka Apr 2014 #30

+1 n/t JTFrog Apr 2014 #34

+2 Sheldon Cooper Apr 2014 #37

Ayup alcibiades_mystery Apr 2014 #53

Neither do I. TransitJohn Apr 2014 #15

That belief belongs to a very small group of feminists. Ms. Toad Apr 2014 #25

+1 n/t JTFrog Apr 2014 #33

Radical feminism is intolerant in general, but this takes the cake LittleBlue Apr 2014 #20

And yet, if you read down the comments... regnaD kciN Apr 2014 #156

Let's hear from some of the HoF feminists on this topic, haven't seen any of them quinnox Apr 2014 #21

This message was self-deleted by its author JTFrog Apr 2014 #35

Why is it odd? Texasgal Apr 2014 #61

Most certainly bigoted and intolerant. Bluenorthwest Apr 2014 #22

It is incredibly bigoted (nt) LostOne4Ever Apr 2014 #24

They are called TERFs. m-lekktor Apr 2014 #26

They go by different names Ms. Toad Apr 2014 #68

It's possible for some feminists to be just as asshole-ish as some MRAs. 11 Bravo Apr 2014 #27

True maddezmom Apr 2014 #29

yes. but also plain stupid. nt La Lioness Priyanka Apr 2014 #28

I agree with that. TransitJohn Apr 2014 #32

Dumb, intolerant and bigoted maddezmom Apr 2014 #31

The word "vile" comes to mind. Jesus Malverde Apr 2014 #36

Yes, it is. Hell Hath No Fury Apr 2014 #40

Feminists usually don't portray themselves as victims alone. idendoit Apr 2014 #43

I think this blogger Madam Mossfern Apr 2014 #44

I think that's a bigotted attitude. TDale313 Apr 2014 #46

Wow CFLDem Apr 2014 #47

Of course. She's no better than people of color agitating against gay marriage. nomorenomore08 Apr 2014 #49

TERFS can fuck right the fuck off. But I question your motives for linking to an obscure blog LeftyMom Apr 2014 #50

Again with the accusations as to my motive. TransitJohn Apr 2014 #55

"I question your motives" is not an accusation. It's a question. LeftyMom Apr 2014 #56

Nope, just tired of passive-aggressive accusations. TransitJohn Apr 2014 #58

Personally I'm tired of MRAs in on a progressive website. LeftyMom Apr 2014 #59

Yeah, watching them troll here and then being accused of being one of them sucks TransitJohn Apr 2014 #60

+1 CreekDog Apr 2014 #199

Yes ismnotwasm Apr 2014 #51

That's what I was trying to do with the OP and my responses, but TransitJohn Apr 2014 #54

We have a lot of bad feelings between feminists and different POV's here ismnotwasm Apr 2014 #64

Thank you very much for this post. TransitJohn Apr 2014 #72

... ismnotwasm Apr 2014 #80

Cartoon ~ Zorra Apr 2014 #52

LOL! That cartoon was good, I hadn't seen that one before. (n/t) Shandris Apr 2014 #226

Am I an "intolerant" feminist Aerows Apr 2014 #57

Very trans intolerant Seeking Serenity Apr 2014 #65

You have to ask? Of course it is. Spider Jerusalem Apr 2014 #70

Whoever wrote that customerserviceguy Apr 2014 #71

The nastiness of that blog post doesn't give off any positive impressions, that's for damn sure. AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #74

link to all these posts that say "all white people are racist" CreekDog Apr 2014 #187

Wasn't referring to DU, by the way(that shoulda been clearly obvious!). AverageJoe90 Apr 2014 #188

intolerant of TG? uh yeah, even more intolerant of the existance of males, period. dionysus Apr 2014 #75

I try to stay away from articles... NCTraveler Apr 2014 #78

If you follow the links... and follow the links... and follow the links... cherokeeprogressive Apr 2014 #138

Per the cultural competency course I took on upaloopa Apr 2014 #151

From the get go. The very first sentence is intolerant of Jamastiene Apr 2014 #153

I understand her need Shankapotomus Apr 2014 #166

Just FYI: Transgendered is not a word. The proper word is transgender. See link below. Zorra Apr 2014 #169

The word isn't used as an adjective in my thread title, it's used as a noun. TransitJohn Apr 2014 #171

I can't seem to find a word "transgendered" defined as a noun in any dictionary, Zorra Apr 2014 #194

This message was self-deleted by its author TransitJohn Apr 2014 #195

Yikes! Boreal Apr 2014 #179

It sounds intolerant to me Blue_In_AK Apr 2014 #186

Yes, and bigoted against males as well. Crunchy Frog Apr 2014 #283

It's bigotry against anyone born with a penis Major Nikon Apr 2014 #288

Even Skinner calls this thread a "meta shitshow" cyberswede Apr 2014 #325

I agree. hrmjustin Apr 2014 #326

There are a lot META shitshows on DU maddezmom Apr 2014 #328

Perhaps it's only a "meta shitshow" for certain members. RiffRandell Apr 2014 #334

Do you think there are people here who DON'T think it's a "meta shitshow?" cyberswede Apr 2014 #335

I think several people miss meta. RiffRandell Apr 2014 #336

I agree, except... cyberswede Apr 2014 #339

Better here than in a protected group where people can't stick up for themselves... Violet_Crumble Apr 2014 #369

You are talking about people here in this thread who can't stick up for themselves. boston bean Apr 2014 #370

Which ones? Last time I checked everyone can post in GD n/t Violet_Crumble Apr 2014 #371

look again. boston bean Apr 2014 #373

I did. I'm not understanding what yr getting at... Violet_Crumble Apr 2014 #374

If they've been locked out they can't. boston bean Apr 2014 #375

Are you talking about seabeyond? Violet_Crumble Apr 2014 #376

Well, she certainly can't respond to the hundreds of posts made after a hidden, or yours could she? boston bean Apr 2014 #380

Then she should be more careful not to get her posts hidden... Violet_Crumble Apr 2014 #381

And people should not be disruptive in groups. boston bean Apr 2014 #382

Your group has a Statement Of Purpose pintobean Apr 2014 #383

That is bull. People are blocked for being disruptive and hostile to feminism. boston bean Apr 2014 #384

"disruptive" pintobean Apr 2014 #385

Thanks for the links. They absolutely back up what I have stated. boston bean Apr 2014 #386

I actually laughed out loud. pintobean Apr 2014 #387

Don't scare the good doggie. boston bean Apr 2014 #388

The threat was there pintobean Apr 2014 #390

And thank you again for posting and linking to a very well reasoned concern of mine. boston bean Apr 2014 #393

More non-answers. pintobean Apr 2014 #396

Why would anyone be held to a different standard than others on the board. boston bean Apr 2014 #397

Yeah, Hof is just ducky. /nt pintobean Apr 2014 #398

HoF is fine. I suggest if it bothers you so dog danged much, trash it please and forever it will be boston bean Apr 2014 #399

No, thank you. pintobean Apr 2014 #402

That is what you are doing? Disinfecting a feminist group on DU?? boston bean Apr 2014 #403

The Jury is in... SunsetDreams Apr 2014 #425

lmao! someone lost their button privileges! opiate69 Apr 2014 #427

7 MRA types called for the same jury Capt. Obvious Apr 2014 #428

Thank you. pintobean Apr 2014 #430

You're welcome SunsetDreams Apr 2014 #434

How does that have anything to do with you? BainsBane Apr 2014 #419

HA maddezmom Apr 2014 #389

Her, and I just did. pintobean Apr 2014 #391

OOPS! I have a rescue that was abused and he is very skittish maddezmom Apr 2014 #392

Great pics. pintobean Apr 2014 #394

He is always smiling maddezmom Apr 2014 #405

Aw. what a beautiful pup! opiate69 Apr 2014 #395

Thanks maddezmom Apr 2014 #404

Lol.. Sorry.. he's adorable too! opiate69 Apr 2014 #406

She.... maddezmom Apr 2014 #408

Dammit! Lol opiate69 Apr 2014 #409

... one_voice Apr 2014 #410

This is the first you've heard about Duckies? BainsBane Apr 2014 #418

Do you have any idea how many DUers pintobean Apr 2014 #420

I assume anyone who reads there would BainsBane Apr 2014 #421

You were trashing DUers there. pintobean Apr 2014 #432

You are not DUers BainsBane Apr 2014 #433

I am pintobean. I am a DUer. pintobean Apr 2014 #437

You are one, singular BainsBane Apr 2014 #439

Well, I can't tell you what MADem thought pintobean Apr 2014 #444

I felt similarly at the time BainsBane Apr 2014 #445

You went to the enemy pintobean Apr 2014 #447

They seemed very pleased to have her posting, NOT. boston bean Apr 2014 #448

Why don't you conduct a poll. pintobean Apr 2014 #451

Why don't you? There are people here on DU who are members in good active standing boston bean Apr 2014 #453

I'm not trying to imply anything pintobean Apr 2014 #456

Why do you so dutifully read the site then? BainsBane Apr 2014 #460

Dutifully? pintobean Apr 2014 #464

I did not go to trash talk DUers BainsBane Apr 2014 #450

Hmm.. didn't posting over there used to be a ToS violation? opiate69 Apr 2014 #435

Nothing in TOS about it now BainsBane Apr 2014 #440

Yes.. if only I had used past tense, opiate69 Apr 2014 #442

Why would you even mention it BainsBane Apr 2014 #443

Why then, O brawling love! O loving hate! O any thing, of nothing first create! opiate69 Apr 2014 #446

I don't think I can take all this adoration from BainsBane Apr 2014 #452

That site is disgusting. How the fuck are DUers on it? LittleBlue Apr 2014 #449

If you're going to pass judgments BainsBane Apr 2014 #454

And if you were just defending yourself, that would be one thing LittleBlue Apr 2014 #455

That is not an accurate representation of my comments there BainsBane Apr 2014 #458

I think it's a pretty accurate representation of your interaction. As that site currently msanthrope Apr 2014 #466

I confronted them because of their stalking of me BainsBane Apr 2014 #467

And it's my right to comment on the method you chose to confront them..... msanthrope Apr 2014 #469

That's the problem. pintobean Apr 2014 #471

Oh, Good god. BainsBane Apr 2014 #474

They rightfully put down those bunch of creeps for stalking behavior boston bean Apr 2014 #477

I think it comes down to BainsBane Apr 2014 #478

Your curt thank you is included in the link. pintobean Apr 2014 #479

Actually the person sent me the PM BainsBane Apr 2014 #480

Send it to me. pintobean Apr 2014 #483

There it is. Thank you. pintobean Apr 2014 #459

They banned you "quickly"? opiate69 Apr 2014 #461

That is a lot of clicks maddezmom Apr 2014 #462

Indeedy, it is! opiate69 Apr 2014 #463

More quickly than the men's group banned me BainsBane Apr 2014 #465

One in this thread talked a ton of smack about at least 2 RiffRandell Apr 2014 #476

Gosh BainsBane Apr 2014 #414

I remember when meta got shut down, admin instructed GD hosts to "be ruthless" with meta threads Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #338

Unfortunately, hosts can only weigh OPs, not replies. cyberswede Apr 2014 #340

So why suggest the OP be deleted? RiffRandell Apr 2014 #341

I think it's turned into such an ugly display... cyberswede Apr 2014 #346

I agree it sure has turned into an ugly display! RiffRandell Apr 2014 #348

It'd be nice if the standards could be applied equally & consistently, even just to OPs. For starts. Warren DeMontague Apr 2014 #342

I think the GD hosts were trying to work out some things... cyberswede Apr 2014 #344

Thosec certain members include Skinner. BainsBane Apr 2014 #345

He posted he didn't want to get involved. RiffRandell Apr 2014 #349

At least, when they're in GD pintobean Apr 2014 #351

This whole thread is pretty ridiculous. Texasgal Apr 2014 #356

"HE" is already a "SHE" for the love of "FUCK" Maraya1969 Apr 2014 #359

Oh, No... MrScorpio Apr 2014 #360

I have to say one of the worst days I had on this site was when Chelsea Manning was sentenced and hrmjustin Apr 2014 #379

The blogger is quite obviously severely mentally ill ProudToBeBlueInRhody Apr 2014 #400

If you find yourself that obsessed with pronouns... Jeff In Milwaukee Apr 2014 #401

TransitJohn - come back to us - where did you go? Please I beg of you - put this seaglass Apr 2014 #441

it's just uninformed and wigged out lululu Apr 2014 #473

Thank you for this very revealing thread. zappaman Apr 2014 #485

It's been a blast, hasn't it? pintobean Apr 2014 #486

That comment more than anything reveals BainsBane Apr 2014 #487

Where's that pm? pintobean Apr 2014 #488

I will not betray a confidence BainsBane Apr 2014 #489

How funny since you tried to at CC. nt RiffRandell Apr 2014 #491

What confidence did I betray? BainsBane Apr 2014 #494

Oh, I think a lot of DUers pintobean Apr 2014 #501

I have no confidence with you BainsBane Apr 2014 #502

Let's go back to the mail I sent you. pintobean Apr 2014 #505

I see no evidence that you side with me BainsBane Apr 2014 #506

Here's a clue pintobean Apr 2014 #507

No, you do it here BainsBane Apr 2014 #508

I think somebody posted some advice you may consider upthread, then. opiate69 Apr 2014 #509

Believe me, I have tried BainsBane Apr 2014 #510

I've never accused you of being a troll pintobean Apr 2014 #511

BS BainsBane Apr 2014 #512

Omg. Were you crying when you wrote that? pintobean Apr 2014 #514

Who got hurt? BainsBane Apr 2014 #515

I only listed some of the people pintobean Apr 2014 #516

Excellent post! RiffRandell Apr 2014 #517

How convenient. pintobean Apr 2014 #492

No problem. TransitJohn Apr 2014 #496

Yeah, I don't get it. zappaman Apr 2014 #500

Wow, I see we can never have a meta forum again. Rex Apr 2014 #495

lol some members live for meta. hrmjustin Apr 2014 #497

I miss it, up until a thread like this one comes along. Rex Apr 2014 #499

Yeah I can see why they got rid of it. hrmjustin Apr 2014 #503

Let's be honest. herding cats Apr 2014 #513

Good advice. hrmjustin Apr 2014 #518